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MemeDesu
September 15th, 2016, 07:14 PM
After mom took away my fourth vibrating thing yesterday, I've been so pissed off at her. I looked everywhere for another item to do it with, but there was nothing. My toothbrush was even taken away and I had to use a manual one.
I even confronted her about it and she said I was too young to be doing it and It was like being addicted to drugs with my behavior and such. For it, I was put on my sister's antidepressants. Mom also mentioned that I was sick in the head for doing it. She said she didn't want to talk about it ever again and said she would let my counselor decide my fate. I won't be in contact with her till the end of this month unfortunately. I had to go two weeks without it prior to my electric razor being taken away and felt extremely desperate and irritated.
I read through some stories about how kids younger than me did the same and their parents were okay with the whole thing. It made me grind my teeth in anger.
How should I cope right now? I have an old cellphone but it doesn't vibrate as good as anything else.

AmyUK
September 16th, 2016, 01:17 AM
Are you asking how you should cope with how your mum is being or without having anything to masturbate with? If it's the latter, just develop better technique with your fingers, I use them almost exclusively and get good results haha.

Your mum sounds quite strict about it and in the end she is your mum so unless you can get her to talk about it and reason with you, she probably won't budge. If you're speaking to your counsellor in 2 weeks, wait until then and speak to them.

ClaraWho
September 16th, 2016, 02:03 AM
I have to say your response to being stopped from masturbating with a vibrating object seems excessive. You say you have a counsellor, are there any mental health issues we should be aware of when responding?

On the other hand it sounds like your mum is at the opposite end of the scale. If she is forcing you to take medication to 'cure masturbation', then I'd raise that with your counsellor as that is not okay.

But that doesn't change the fact that you seem to be rather dependent upon sexual stimulation.

Need more info.

~ Clara

Living For Love
September 17th, 2016, 04:17 AM
This is not puberty related. :locked: