Guy hitting on me??

[Just a Guy]

Okay so I'm a guy and it's my first year at college and I posted something recently about making friends, anyways in one of my classes this guy started talking to me and I thought he was just trying to be friendly or make friends so I responded positively and joked around a bit but then he walked with me after my class because I had one right after and when we were talking he kinda casually slipped in that he thought i was cute and I was so startled because that's never happened before. Like guys have hit on me but never has one straight out told me, especially within like a day of first meeting me. We kept talking after that and got on the topic of dating and stuff and he flat out said he was hitting on me.


Anyways I don't know what to do because I'm afraid he's going to try and take things further and I've never dated a guy before and I've thought about it and would be willing to date another guy but idk if it should be him or what. I'm just very flustered haha does anyone have any advice

[jake97aus]

Just straight out tell him you've never actually dated a guy before and it's all kind of new to you so he understands your situation. From there just take things slow and work out if you want to take things further before rushing into anything! Good luck, hope it goes well :P

[jamie_n5]

Well that is a decision you will have to figure out for yourself. It sounds like you are open to the idea of dating a guy so it shouldn't be a shock that someone is hitting on you and wants to date you. Do you consider yourself straight, bi or gay? If you are bi or gay then I would suggest you try going out with him unless there is something that is telling you that something is wrong with him. If you are straight then tell him you are flattered but not interested in dating guys. It is all about how you feel about things.