How long did you wait

[SammiB]

How long did you wait to have sex between fooling around with your first sexual partner and actually doing it with them? Was there any reason?

[Living For Love]

Puberty For Girls :arrow2: Relationships and Dating.

[StoppingTom]

It's been six months, and we haven't done anything because she isn't ready, which is fine. We've been talking about it more, but it is what it is.

[Lukas1999]

I had my first relation when I was too young for having sex. I didn't do it. We never thought about it. After a very long relationship with her we broke up. We were argueing all times and the relationship wasn't pretty anymore.

These days I am not in a relationship so I can not talk about having sex with somebody

[Cadanance00]

With my first gf it was like 3-4 months but that was cuz we decided on when we were going to have sex. With my gf now it was like a couple of weeks but I had known her for about a year.

[AmyUK]

With my bf we were probably together about 6 months and had been fooling around probably for 4-5 :)

With a girl, it really depends on what you define as sex as to how long I waited :)

[jamie_n5]

Well we grew up together and fooled around for quite a few years but had sex the first time at 14 and we are still together now.

[Hideous]

It was after our first date. He spent a night in my home.

[Zachary G]

it was 2-3 days between the time we met and started fooling around and 24 hours before we had sex for the first time. Its just felt right at the moment

[Ellie Kioto]

Still a virgin and vaiting for a gf or bf

[Bull]

I didn't want to have intercourse just for the fun of it. I wanted it to be an expression of love, so we were 18 and in a relationship for several months before going all the way. I am glad I waited for sex.

[Claire Asteroid]

With my last boyfriend we were together for about 5 months and we never had sex, we kissed and he sometimes played with my boobs.

[ashdyn]

My first few relationships it happened really quick like within the first few days. But I think that's cause in both cases we both weren't really ready to date we just wanted to mess around so we used dating as an excuse.

My current relationship we waited 4 months

[RJH98]

I'm in my first serious relationship right now (together for exactly a month now). We've fooled around since week 1 but she wants to take it slow when it comes to sex, and I agree completely. We have barely talked about sex the past two weeks and I think that is fine. When it happens, it happens. If I have to wait another 3 months, I'm very much okay with that because I don't want my relationship to be based on sex, as my past "relationships" have been