KEEPER or a PLAYER? Need help ASAP.

[ayeitsme]

So there's this guy. We have had a thing since August 28th when we got "engaged". We hadn't talked a lot before then but we had been hanging out in a big group quite a bit over summer. When we talk it's obviously flirty messages. Now a week ago I went into town with some friends to hangout with him and his friends. I wasn't expecting anything to happen, I didn't even think that he told his friends about us. Well apparently he did and next thing I know everyone's bugging me to kiss him, including him. I wanted to but I was nervous and wasn't sure how to go at it. So thankfully one of my friends asked him why he didn't just go for so he did. It was AMAZING! He texted me later that night but then he started not to text me first all the time. On Friday at a party someone said that he was dating the school skank early in the week but I don't think it was true cause they are all bad for spreading rumors. I usually don't worry about guys actually liking me but this guy is hella hot and I'm not the only girl who likes him and I got alot of people mad by kissing him but I'm cool with that. I'm not like most girls and I'm not easy. It takes some effort with me but I'm wondering if thats the way to be or if I should change it up to be the one he chooses. What do I do to stand out from other girls? How do I make him notice me in a crowd?

[Drewboyy]

Based on the wording and the fact that you're worried about mere kissing I'd say nothing bad can come out of this relationship unless you are positive that it would be too much work for you. A real keeper is a guy who doesn't expect too much

[ninja1010]

If your don't mind me asking, how old are you? Don't need an exact number, but a general stage in life helps.

Not super experienced with dating, but i know what makes girls stand out.

[ayeitsme]

If your don't mind me asking, how old are you? Don't need an exact number, but a general stage in life helps.

Not super experienced with dating, but i know what makes girls stand out.

I am 15 and he is 16.

[ninja1010]

Since you guys are already familiar with each other, just try to keep talking to him. Be nice and try to make him feel comfortable. If he compliments you, make sure to acknowledge it.

Gonna be cliche, but be you. Be funny and talk about anything. I find myself getting more attracted to girls when we can relate and just laugh about everything. Just be careful not to get friendzoned.

[jamie_n5]

Well don't have sex with him to try to keep him. You might just end up as an other notch on his bedpost. Sex is a very special thing and should be reserved for someone you deeply love and care for and not to just please. Keep being hard to get girl. Stick to your guns on that.

[Tesserax]

I don't see much of an issue. I just see a bunch of people jealous that the "school skank" is going out with what you're describing as the school hottie. Just keep going with it, ignore the snide remarks. Jealousy and cynicism from others is simply a way to convince themselves that they don't want what you have, even though they do.