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ninja1010
September 12th, 2016, 06:19 PM
I'm pretty sure this girl is into me, and I'm definitely into her. I'm just not super experienced and I'll be honest, extremely nervous. I made the mistake of going out with one of my bestfriends in middle school, now we pretend that we don't know each other, so that's another fear I have.

She's a sophomore and I'm a freshman, if that matters. I sit by her in geometry and she didn't really stick out to me at all. She told me she recognizes me and it was from Instagram. ObviouslyI went ahead and followed her back. Through a month of school we talk and joke around a lot and I started to develop feelings, but mainly on a friendly level. She DMed me about a week ago asking for help on hw. I managed to get her Snapchat on the process.

Her liver started falling so she couldn''t go to a football game and just started messaging me, asking how it was going. (She's okay, just medicine and a weird diet) We kept texting and next thing i knew, I was home texting at 2AM.

We texted all of this weekend and she always wakes up before me and initiates it. She texted me first thing after school and we have plans to hang out at an away football game this Friday.

I'm hoping some more face to face contact will help me get a better feel.

I know this was detailed, I'm honestly a nervous wreck. I think that's why I like her honestly. Somebody who helps me understand and is easy to open up to.

Its ironic. I'm a big athlete (I'm not a kid who thinks I'm good, i really am promise) and i perform take well, but fall apart with my social game 😂😂😂

Thanks. I feel like i needed to write this

jamie_n5
September 13th, 2016, 11:54 AM
Why don't you ask her out and see where things go from there. Don't be nervous you know each other fairly well now. She is even probably expecting that you ask her out.

ninja1010
September 13th, 2016, 05:52 PM
Why don't you ask her out and see where things go from there. Don't be nervous you know each other fairly well now. She is even probably expecting that you ask her out.

Assuming we both enjoy Friday, I'm planning on asking her to hang out Saturday.

What I'm also thinking about is possibly asking her to homecoming which is in two Saturdays. I just want to be careful to come on too strong.

ninja1010
September 13th, 2016, 07:17 PM
Update: So I'm in the middle of texting her and her friend followed me, then instantly asked me if I'm into her. I don't know this girl wiell so I said idk and she said I should.

I'm not gonna fuck myself over by looking into this too much. Lol

jamie_n5
September 13th, 2016, 07:52 PM
Well don't sit on your hands man. You need to move forward on this. You are acting like you two don't know each other. Go ask her out on Friday.

Tesserax
September 14th, 2016, 04:50 AM
I'm pretty sure this girl is into me, and I'm definitely into her. I'm just not super experienced and I'll be honest, extremely nervous. I made the mistake of going out with one of my bestfriends in middle school, now we pretend that we don't know each other, so that's another fear I have.

She's a sophomore and I'm a freshman, if that matters. I sit by her in geometry and she didn't really stick out to me at all. She told me she recognizes me and it was from Instagram. ObviouslyI went ahead and followed her back. Through a month of school we talk and joke around a lot and I started to develop feelings, but mainly on a friendly level. She DMed me about a week ago asking for help on hw. I managed to get her Snapchat on the process.

Her liver started falling so she couldn''t go to a football game and just started messaging me, asking how it was going. (She's okay, just medicine and a weird diet) We kept texting and next thing i knew, I was home texting at 2AM.

We texted all of this weekend and she always wakes up before me and initiates it. She texted me first thing after school and we have plans to hang out at an away football game this Friday.

I'm hoping some more face to face contact will help me get a better feel.

I know this was detailed, I'm honestly a nervous wreck. I think that's why I like her honestly. Somebody who helps me understand and is easy to open up to.

Its ironic. I'm a big athlete (I'm not a kid who thinks I'm good, i really am promise) and i perform take well, but fall apart with my social game 😂😂😂

Thanks. I feel like i needed to write this

She definitely is interested. The only girl that was ever really interested in me (as far as I can tell) to some extent also happens to be the only girl who regularly texted me first without me having to initiate conversations. I could be wrong, but that's how I see it. A girl will go after what she wants if she wants it, and won't necessarily hang around looking like fresh bait for the sharks to bite.

ninja1010
September 18th, 2016, 12:03 AM
Update: She couldn't make it to the game, but we went bowling with a few friends. It was fun and she texted me that as soon as we left.

Now i just to man the hell up and ask her to homecoming. She told me that she's going and I just need a good way to ask her.