Crush

[lockness]

So I haven't really had a girlfriend before and think that I might like a girl in my class.

So I was wanting some help on what love feels like and where to go next etc.

Thanks for your help.

[ThomasD]

You better start saying hi to her just in case someone else does.

[ska8er]

I agree with Thomas above-also
smile and flatter her and take an
interest in things that she likes to do.

[Phosphene]

How well do you know her? If not at all I'd recommend getting to know her and gauge her feelings toward you, see if what you're feeling and what she's feeling is the desire to have a friendship or a relationship.

[lockness]

thanks for your help so far.
At the moment I've said hi to her as well as general conversation. But conservation usually stops after a couple sentences.

How would you know if she is interested in being friends or in a relationship?

Any other advice?

[jamie_n5]

Well if you don't really know this girl yet you surely don't know if you love her. Talk to her get to know her and then maybe ask her out and slowly go from there.

[jxxx_z]

Make friends with her, then see if she's interested

[lockness]

Make friends with her, then see if she's interested

Thanks, How should I go about making friends with her?, Just talk about what she is into?

[jake97aus]

Thanks, How should I go about making friends with her?, Just talk about what she is into?

Start by introducing yourself, and then maybe talk about homework/class work and just have a general chat to find out a bit more about her. Once you learn a bit about her you'll work out what she likes to talk about and whether she's worth your time or not. Nothing worse than liking someone and then when you finally talk to them they're either totally boring or absolutely psycho! XD

[user-999]

Talk to her, See if you have anything incomon, like hobbies, maybe you like the same music. For example, my best girl friend liked The Sims and then we founds other things that we both liked.

[lockness]

Start by introducing yourself, and then maybe talk about homework/class work and just have a general chat to find out a bit more about her. Once you learn a bit about her you'll work out what she likes to talk about and whether she's worth your time or not. Nothing worse than liking someone and then when you finally talk to them they're either totally boring or absolutely psycho! XD

Thanks Jake, so manly just start with talking about school related stuff?

[jake97aus]

Thanks Jake, so manly just start with talking about school related stuff?

Yeah anything like that, because that's something you both have in common already, so it's a good place to start. And then once you've started talking for a while you'll probably start to notice more things in common that you can talk about :)

[lockness]

Yeah anything like that, because that's something you both have in common already, so it's a good place to start. And then once you've started talking for a while you'll probably start to notice more things in common that you can talk about :)

Yeah hopefully, she is the most sportiest girl I have come across and I'm not really a sporty person. That is probably why I want to get fitter, to impress her.

[jake97aus]

Yeah hopefully, she is the most sportiest girl I have come across and I'm not really a sporty person. That is probably why I want to get fitter, to impress her.

Haha well at least you know something about her! But if sport really isn't your thing then don't push yourself to be something your not. However, if you really like this girl then go for it, nothing like a bit of healthy change in ya life I suppose :P

[lockness]

Haha well at least you know something about her! But if sport really isn't your thing then don't push yourself to be something your not. However, if you really like this girl then go for it, nothing like a bit of healthy change in ya life I suppose :P

Yeah true that, What do you mean by don't push myself to be someone i am not?
But i think this is my first true love:)