Girls, Just want your thoughts on this..

[Shortie]

Hey! I've found myself in a situation, it's like this. I know a guy who likes me but I'm not attracted to him or guys really however I like him as a friend and care about him. Well what do you think about if someone offered you money for sex? Normally I'd say no but this is a special circumstance for me because I feel like I would be helping him out and he would be helping me.

Id like to hear what you all think, preferably around my age or anyone mature enough to handle it. He treats me with a great deal of respect and I don't feel threatened in any way.

[Tbone121894]

I dont think theres anything wrong with it if your both ok with it, and close friends as you say; although why not just help your friend out and leave the money out of it. Sex between friends can really be a beautiful thing, just dont let it get out of hand or come between you too.

[jenny2234]

Isn't that illegal?

[stacy1203]

I think you should do whatever you're comfoertable with, I can't actually put myself into your position but if you know the person and you trust him, its only your opinion that matters...

But then again, I might not be old enough to give advice on questions like this, so consider it as my own opinion :yes:

[Daniella98]

I dont think theres anything wrong with it if your both ok with it, and close friends as you say; although why not just help your friend out and leave the money out of it. Sex between friends can really be a beautiful thing, just dont let it get out of hand or come between you too.

This. And its a good idea to leavethe money out. Money between friends can often lead to trouble. But if you guys can handle the money situation, thats fine. Nothing wrong with the sex part though

[Pensive]

Leaving the whole moral and decency issues aside, cus it's your life to ruin, I'll just say this.

Prostitution is illegal in most European countries, the USA and presumably Australia.

Prostitution is the exchange of sex for goods/money.
Sex outside a relationship is called something else I'm not allowed to say.

Think I'll report this post to moderation...

[juanita]

Legal issues aside.......boys being boys he is going to want sex again. Unless you want to continue being paid for sexual favors it will ruin your friendship.

[Lisa R]

I would say go for it if you both are ok a.nd comfortable .
And leave the money out of it. I may cause problems between friends
Just think of it friends with benefits .

[ImAurora]

Everyone's said it already. If you two are mature enough for it and want to, go for it. And leave the money out.

[Croconaw]

I will never have sex, especially if someone paid me. I just don't feel like having to go through the pregnancy stuff.

[Elysium]

Puberty for Girls :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Shortie]

I can't be FWB with him because I am not attracted to guys!

[Luminous]

Taking out the money, I might do it. But if there was money involved, I would never do it. That's prostitution.

[mDavis97]

It's called prostitution.....No bueno.....

[LifeOfLove]

Nothing new to add here...
I would strongly urge against money being involved...that leads to all kinds of trouble legal and otherwise.
If you both want to have sex with eachother, that's totally cool, just do yourselves a favor and leave the money out of it...

[NotShortButFunsized]

if you're both mature enough for the sex, why does money have to be involved? unless hes helping out with paying for condoms/planB/whatever, theres no reason for money to be involved in (what should be) an act of love

if hes respectful to women, great. but you should still question his motivations because he apparently still looks at you as a prostitute or looks at girls in general as something to be bought. maybe talk to him about why he feels there needs to be payment for it?

you said he would be helping you out too, (and im making assumptions,) but if youre in some sort of financial trouble and he knows this, is it possible hes using leverage?

If youre not attracted to boys (which is totally fine) but are still considering doing it anyways, are you considering for the money, or the act of being with a man?

just some questions to think about when youre making your decision, just be honest with yourself and im sure itll turn out alright.

[Karkat]

Like most others have said, this is considered prostitution, and in most places, it is illegal. It's also very unwise to let sex AND money come between friends who are not considering pursuing a relationship. Especially if he develops feelings for you. There's also the risk of pregnancy to think about. I would highly recommend against doing this at all, but I would absolutely recommend against engaging in prostitution- that could mean jail time/juvie, at the very least it's a blemish on your record, and you might have to pay a fine. Not to mention issues of age of consent, etc. It depends on where you live, but it could turn out very badly for you, so if you are only in it for the money, don't do it.

[Synyster Shadows]

Considering this is now in R&D, I'm going to throw my two cents in. I figure it could help to get a guy's perspective. That's a really risky idea. Yes, that would be considered prostitution if you were to do it for money, and yes, being a guy, he will want more. We guys usually have less self-control. After he gets you once, he will most likely want you again and again and who knows what could happen after that? It could and probably would get out of control very quickly. Don't do it. And yes, there are all those other issues - STDs, pregnancy, etc. There are so many things that could go wrong. Don't do it.

[Obsidian]

Well firstly I don't really understand why you would want to. I'm straight and if a girl said they would pay me to have sex with them I wouldn't do it simply because the idea of having sex with a girl is totally unappealing to me and I know I wouldn't enjoy it. Why put yourself in an uncomfortable situation just to get money? It doesn't seem worth it to me.

It is ultimately your decision though, and I'd just advise that if you do go through with it be really careful about who you tell and make sure that you and the guy are on the same page and that he is someone that you can trust. If you don't know him well you don't know whether or not he'll go off and tell people what you're doing or if he can be trusted. I'd just be really cautious... you need to know for certain that he's a good person and that you can trust him if you're going to do something like this with him.

[anyone50]

I guess technically you are talking about prostitution but I don't think the money is the real issue here. Why would you want to have sex with someone your not attracted to in the first place. Just curious is it still considered prostitution if a guy has sex with you and then buys you something expensive like jewelry or even something as insignificant as taking you out to dinner and a movie. I guess it's how you look at it. I have nothing against the money thing or prostitution as long as it's done in a safe way after all it's been a very successful business in several locations just one state away from where I live and perfectly legal. Again the bigger issue she has is having sex with someone she's not attracted to I feel.

[ozteen]

has he actually offered you money for sex?