Girls

[Croconaw]

I'm kind of in a weird situation. There's this coworker of mine that I'm not incredibly close to just because we are both shy, but there are signs pointing to her liking me. Let's call her S, who I can confirm that she does like girls. A friend of S (let's call the friend J) has told my dad that S liked me. Also she asked my dad where I was one time, and that was the only thing she ever said to him. I told J that I liked S, and he said to tell her. His reaction was basically "Tell her." with a serious face. I got two front row seats to this NHL game and I was going to ask her if she wanted to go, because we are both obsessed with hockey. I said hi to her a few times and she said hi back but always seemed kind of nervous. She seemed really happy the last time I told her hi though.

Would you say that she likes me in that way? The weird thing is I'm not at all nervous about asking her out if I can get her alone, but I'm not really sure how to get her alone. I was going to ask her when she gets off of work at 7am, but I get off at 6am so I'd have to stick around. What do you think?

[Flapjack]

She could be just a friendly kind girl or she could fancy you:P I do think she fancies you though :) Do you know that she is into girls? I wish you luck buddy!! Keep us updated:)

[Croconaw]

She could be just a friendly kind girl or she could fancy you:P I do think she fancies you though :) Do you know that she is into girls? I wish you luck buddy!! Keep us updated:)I know for a fact she is into girls. :) I wanted to ask her out a few days ago but she was not at work, like she called off sick of something for three days. :( I am definitely asking the next day I see her, hopefully tonight.

[Flapjack]

I know for a fact she is into girls. :) I wanted to ask her out a few days ago but she was not at work, like she called off sick of something for three days. :( I am definitely asking the next day I see her, hopefully tonight.
Yesss!!! I wish you luck!!!:)

[Croconaw]

Yesss!!! I wish you luck!!!:)Thank you. :) I'm hoping what her friend told my dad about her liking me had some truth to it. :P I will definitely update everyone tonight though when I ask her. :)

[jamie_n5]

Well I think you should talk to her and then yes definitely ask her out.

[Croconaw]

So, she was there and I told her I liked her. She was kind of being really shy about it but she was blushing, smiling, and her arms were at her side (not crossed). I'm not really sure what to say to her next time I see her, which will probably be Sunday night. Does anyone have any ideas? I don't think I should ask her about the hockey game just yet. I really think she likes me, but she's just being really, really shy.

[AmyUK]

Yay that's cool! And she might be acting shy because she is, or to try and be a bit cute (I effectively melt if a girl acts all shy around me. Haha).

I think you should ask her to the game. It definitely sounds like she'd be up for it :)

[ClaraWho]

Sorry, what are you waiting for? o.O

Ask her to the game you silly fool! This reads so cutely, I got those mushy feels :3. Even if she says no to a date, you could always rephrase it and just say 'I know you love hockey, so do I, shall we just go as friends? You seem like a really lovely person'.

Nearly everyone loves being told they are liked romantically anyway, unless they are a homophobe :/... But then why would you wanna date that sort of... I'm rambling. This is so cute. Updates please!! But ask her. Ask her you fool!

Good luck,

~ Clara

[Croconaw]

I'll ask her to the game probably on Sunday if I can find the opportunity. :) Just going to be awkward next time I see her because I did tell her I liked her.

[Croconaw]

I'm going to ask her to the game when I can get her alone. Would this be alright to say?

Hey, are you getting off Friday nights soon, because I have two hockey tickets to a Penguins/Kings game. Want to go?"

Would that be okay to say? Not too weird.

[AmyUK]

I'm going to ask her to the game when I can get her alone. Would this be alright to say?

Hey, are you getting off Friday nights soon, because I have two hockey tickets to a Penguins/Kings game. Want to go?"

Would that be okay to say? Not too weird.

Yup, sounds good to me!!

[Croconaw]

Well I just asked her if she wanted to go to the game with me and she was like "Oh my gosh...um...against the Kings, um... Im gonna have to pass I'm scared of crowds and lots of people" but literally she was smiling the entire time and then I asked her if she liked me after and she said something but I could really hear her because it was so quiet. She was also smiling when I asked her if she liked me like that. :/ What does this mean?

[Tesserax]

I'm kind of in a weird situation. There's this coworker of mine that I'm not incredibly close to just because we are both shy, but there are signs pointing to her liking me. Let's call her S, who I can confirm that she does like girls. A friend of S (let's call the friend J) has told my dad that S liked me. Also she asked my dad where I was one time, and that was the only thing she ever said to him. I told J that I liked S, and he said to tell her. His reaction was basically "Tell her." with a serious face. I got two front row seats to this NHL game and I was going to ask her if she wanted to go, because we are both obsessed with hockey. I said hi to her a few times and she said hi back but always seemed kind of nervous. She seemed really happy the last time I told her hi though.

Would you say that she likes me in that way? The weird thing is I'm not at all nervous about asking her out if I can get her alone, but I'm not really sure how to get her alone. I was going to ask her when she gets off of work at 7am, but I get off at 6am so I'd have to stick around. What do you think?

Sorry if I'm late, but I would invite her to the event, watch the game together, maybe grab a bite to eat, but then as you're departing, confess. Just be casual and tell her "Hey, look. I've been thinking recently, and to be honest I kind of like you," or something along those lines. Just keep it simple, nothing too fancy. After a good night, it might warm her up and make her feel more comfortable to admit the same if she shares the feelings, but could also be just a good night between friends if you're too afraid to tell in the end.

[Tesserax]

Well I just asked her if she wanted to go to the game with me and she was like "Oh my gosh...um...against the Kings, um... Im gonna have to pass I'm scared of crowds and lots of people" but literally she was smiling the entire time and then I asked her if she liked me after and she said something but I could really hear her because it was so quiet. She was also smiling when I asked her if she liked me like that. :/ What does this mean?

I'm stupid, I should have read comments first. Just tell her you like her like you dad said. Guys know how it is, you keep it simple, be straightforward and direct, but not too overly pushy about it. Just make it apparent, and see how it goes, then take it from there. You just gotta take the leap of faith before you decide whether or not to use your parachute, put it that way.

[Croconaw]

I did tell her I liked her, though. I think I said that in the first post.

[AmyUK]

I did tell her I liked her, though. I think I said that in the first post.

To be honest if it happened how you described, it seems like she really likes you.... If she does have this fear of crowds etc (which is really common) then it was probably really tough for her to say no because it sounds like she's into you. Try and find a kind of quieter activity to do? Even if it's just invite her out for lunch sometime or something like that? Because then she won't be scared of doing it and you might get a more real response of whether she likes you or not :) just my advice.

It sounds good to me.

[Croconaw]

Thank you. I just hope I didn't freak her out by asking her out last time. My dad told me I need to stop talking to her and wait until she says something to me, and when she does, respond with no emotion. Is that a good idea? I don't want her to think I hate her. :/