Spanking

[tom20012016]

im 15 and I still get spanked for stuff by my dad. I dont get it as much as when i was young but still quite alot(like 5 or 6 times a year).It is usually with a belt or a paddle
Do you stiil get it?Has anyone else found how to get out of them? I really hate getting them some advice??

[jamie_n5]

Well most parents aren't into the spanking thing much now days. I would say that at 15 your dad could do more good having a good talk with you on what you have done wrong and why it's bad and what you will get for punishment. Like grounding or no gaming or TV or something like that.

[pconnor2001]

We still get spanked. Me and my little brothers. Our spankings are always on the bare butt with paddle, hairbrush or strap.

[Dalcourt]

Well maybe don't do the things you get spanked for to avoid them?

[Flapjack]

I have never received corporal punishment and I am dead against it. Unfortunately buddy you are from Texas and I imagine there is literally nothing you can do about it. I would recommend avoid doing the stuff that makes your parents to it but I would also approach your parents when you have not done anything wrong and they are calm so you guys can talk about it :)

[ethan-s]

No, I don't get them anymore because I figured out how to get out of them. The way to do it is to not screw up and follow instructions EXACTLY, even if the product is.bad, follow the directions.

Sorry, that's all I got for you.

[tom20012016]

Well maybe don't do the things you get spanked for to avoid them?

No, I don't get them anymore because I figured out how to get out of them. The way to do it is to not screw up and follow instructions EXACTLY, even if the product is.bad, follow the directions.

Sorry, that's all I got for you.


I think is pretty difficult not screw up.I just wanted some advice.How old were u when u stopped getting them??

[pjones]

stopped getting them when i was 10 i think. now it's loss of privileges, worst is i can't have my friend over or go to his house, we can only see each at school. he says i have to behave cause it feels like he's being punished too. i've been real good lately ;):lol:

[tom20012016]

stopped getting them when i was 10 i think. now it's loss of privileges, worst is i can't have my friend over or go to his house, we can only see each at school. he says i have to behave cause it feels like he's being punished too. i've been real good lately ;):lol:

Do u know why they stopped??

[ethan-s]

I think is pretty difficult not screw up.I just wanted some advice.How old were u when u stopped getting them??

I dunno, like 11 or something.

[danym]

well i got spanked from my big brother. maybe its odd but he is my legal guardian, ya know. and you are right . its pretty hard not to screw up.
maybe you could try to talk to him when he is in a good mood

[pjones]

Do u know why they stopped??

think it was just because losing privileges was a more lasting punishment

[tom20012016]

well i got spanked from my big brother. maybe its odd but he is my legal guardian, ya know. and you are right . its pretty hard not to screw up.
maybe you could try to talk to him when he is in a good mood

What are u spanked with??

[danym]

mostly with his hand or brash. only for bigger things with his belt

[Leprous]

I just find it wrong to be honest. Hurting your child in my opinion is a bad form of punishment, take away their toys when they're young or ground them when older, but don't hurt your child.

Like if I ever have kids (most likely not though) I would never ever hurt them, it just feels wrong to me.

[tom20012016]

mostly with his hand or brash. only for bigger things with his belt
With just his hand?Do u get them bare???

[PlasmaHam]

I still get them at 17, though definitely at a decreased rate than when I was younger. Now a days, my punishment usually involves doing extra work around the house. I guess they want to get something out of my punishment. But I occasionally still get spankings.

My best guess if you want to get out of them is to simply stop doing whatever they are punishing you for. You stated you don't get it but a few times a year, so there is a clear reason why they spank you those few times.

Spankings don't really work too well on me any more. I have enough control to block out most of the pain, so as long as I'm focused the effects of it are minimum. Of course, I still put on a bit of a show so my parents think the spankings are actually working.

[danym]

Nope,not on the bare with his hand. Never.

[Jinglebottom]

My parents never laid a finger on me, the only thing they'd do is threaten to bring out the "wooden spoon" but it was all talk and it was effective at correcting my behavior. Not that I misbehaved a lot as a kid, I was only a headache when I was sick (and I was a very, very sick child).

[tom20012016]

I still get them at 17, though definitely at a decreased rate than when I was younger. Now a days, my punishment usually involves doing extra work around the house. I guess they want to get something out of my punishment. But I occasionally still get spankings.

My best guess if you want to get out of them is to simply stop doing whatever they are punishing you for. You stated you don't get it but a few times a year, so there is a clear reason why they spank you those few times.

Spankings don't really work too well on me any more. I have enough control to block out most of the pain, so as long as I'm focused the effects of it are minimum. Of course, I still put on a bit of a show so my parents think the spankings are actually working.

whata re u spanked with??

[JohnC]

I still get spanked by my mom. Not really happy about it either. Not sure what you can do to get out of them. Just try to not get in trouble and get good grades.

[Abhorrence]

It's a ridiculous form of punishment. Physically hurting anyone for doing something wrong is not going to teach anything, more often than not it just leads to the person resorting to violence when things are done wrong to them. I can't believe any parent would still actually hit or hurt their child instead of being reasonable. It's not hard to sit down and talk about why not to do something.

[tom20012016]

[QUOTE=JohnC;3429029]I still get spanked by my mom. Not really happy about it either. Not sure what you can do to get out of them. Just try to not get in trouble and get good grades.
What are u spanked with?

[Dalcourt]

I wonder why the how and if what people get spanked is always so interesting to others...seems lime some weird fetish and obsession this alone shows that it does something extremely wrong to people's minds.

[Flapjack]

I wonder why the how and if what people get spanked is always so interesting to others...seems lime some weird fetish and obsession this alone shows that it does something extremely wrong to people's minds.
I thinking having a fetish is fine if it hurts no one buddy but I think spanking kid at like 17 is sooo creepy! People probably find it interesting to see if what they're getting is normal or not? Yeah dude it deffo fucks a lot of kids up mentally!! Maybe not everyone but I am sure most don't notice it and would have been better off if they didn't get corporal punishment as a child. I consider it child abuse.

[dmalone99]

I am 17 and stil get spanked bare naked. My mom usually spanks me with a belt and then dad with paddle.

[erik2000]

I still get spanked at 17. I was always punished like that usually with the belt and for more serious things with the cane. But now it is almost the cane all the time, my parents say the belt is not enough as I grew older.

[pconnor]

We still get spanked and always bare.

[Atlantis]

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