Self-confidence in body and in looks

[bpk1234]

So I am 19 I have dirty blonde hair with blue eyes. I have an athletic build and weigh 120lbs and about 5'8 in height.

I have this horrible habit of not being happy with my body while I know that many people would kill to have a build like I have.

When I am out in public and see a cute guy ( I am gay btw) I get envious of his looks and think I am not good enough. Its same when I go to beach I see another guy I get envious of his body because I think it is attractive and mine isn't good enough.

I also always think that for some stupid reason in my head that every guys cock is bigger than mine, its a stupid notion I put in my head that I know is not true. I am 3in soft and 6in hard.

I know that a lot of this is just me tearing myself down, how do I stop myself from doing this?

[Harrybaby4]

Hey man, I suffer a lot from this. Weirdly enough from your description we sound very similar (19, blonde, blue eyes, athletic, 5'8, 6 inch - weird!).

But I think it's a struggle for gay/bi guys a lot as we are constantly checking guys out and seeing them as attractive. Obviously you will never be attracted to yourself as another guy so you automatically put yourself down.
Just try and be positive, work at what you can change and accept what you can't. Hard to I know :)

[jamie_n5]

I think that we all have similar thoughts about ourselves. I would say that this would be quite common in all of us. I am confident in my body and looks. I am just a normal looking person. No great body or anything but I am happy with the way I am.

[talkradiogeek]

I hate everything about my body :( But overall, I've learned to get over it and carry on.

[ska8er]

So I am 19 I have dirty blonde hair with blue eyes. I have an athletic build and weigh 120lbs and about 5'8 in height.

I have this horrible habit of not being happy with my body while I know that many people would kill to have a build like I have.

When I am out in public and see a cute guy ( I am gay btw) I get envious of his looks and think I am not good enough. Its same when I go to beach I see another guy I get envious of his body because I think it is attractive and mine isn't good enough.

I also always think that for some stupid reason in my head that every guys cock is bigger than mine, its a stupid notion I put in my head that I know is not true. I am 3in soft and 6in hard.

I know that a lot of this is just me tearing myself down, how do I stop myself from doing this?




Ever think that the guys u r
envious over may b envious
of u?

[Xman31]

I'm 13 and I'm like 140cm, I weigh 34 KG and I am skinny ah. Whenever I go to out in public, I see people that look my age, yet they are taller, stronger and overall bigger than I am. I hate feeling this way. But then I realised that, Idk this guy, for all I know he could be a short 16 yr old. Just try not to think of him as someone you know.