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ZzeWatermelon
August 28th, 2016, 04:09 AM
Everything is in the title of the post, what makes a girl attractive in your eyes? (Directed to guys mainly)

Personnally:
- Intelligent but anecdotic, doesn't talk about facts all the time
- No stupid giggling, I hate that
- Tall, and not too thin, not too massive. With curves.
- The thicker the hair the better, fine hair somehow when it's kept long, it doesn't look its best.
- If a girl can laugh, and keep the conversation going, even if it's about politics or sports.
- Friendly, likes children, has a motherly like attitude towards little children or younger people.
- Open to propositions - confident, and out there, but not easy for guys.
- And lastly, and most importantly, I think that when a girl can ask a guy out or tell him how she feels, it's terribly attractive.

What do you think? :) Get it all out there!

Flapjack
August 28th, 2016, 04:12 AM
You don't want much do ya ;)

I am a big believer in beauty is in the eye of the beholder so it will very from person to person :)

I've only fancied one person and don't have a type sooo I can't really answer xD

ZzeWatermelon
August 28th, 2016, 04:24 AM
I'm not into girls so I don't want that but generally speaking - and from my guy friends experiences, our point of view is quite alike :)

TheFutureDoctor
August 28th, 2016, 07:01 AM
Not really beauty. I had a crush on a girl who was pretty far from beautiful by everyone else's point of view.
But hey, the laugh. I always fall for a good laugh or a cute smile. I really don't know why... Beauty is important as well, but not decisive for me. Friendliness, smile(like I already said) and just generally talking.

jamie_n5
August 28th, 2016, 10:12 AM
True beauty comes from within the soul.

Desynchronized
August 28th, 2016, 10:45 AM
Well thats a big list you got there.

ZzeWatermelon
August 28th, 2016, 11:11 AM
Yes but not such a demanding one if the girl is intelligent and knows how to behave :)

Flapjack
August 28th, 2016, 11:32 AM
I'm not into girls so I don't want that but generally speaking - and from my guy friends experiences, our point of view is quite alike :)
You should make a thread on what makes a guy attractive :)

lemondrop
August 28th, 2016, 12:20 PM
Booty like two planets,lawl jk :D

Nice face,eyes(for everyone is different) , perfectly sculpted body, no gold diggin' shit, easy going,but more important - creative. Ohhh and if she can cook well ^.^ this is like a perfect ideal for a girl (for me)

Tesserax
August 29th, 2016, 12:31 AM
Varies from person to person, but the most common thing among people is non-verbal expression, body language and things like that. Attraction is based on the way the girl acts and looks overall for me. If she acts cute, she looks cuter. A girl could be really cute or beautiful, but they could act like a complete bitch and carry herself poorly, and I'd see her as less attractive, for example one of my friends who cheated on her boyfriend and basically acted like a complete slut I began to look down on. She seemed less attractive to me than before and I don't consider her as pretty as I used to.

However, connection is a different deal. They can brush together sometimes and influence each other, like how I feel less connection as a person towards said slutty friend. I feel that I find myself more attracted to girls when I have a connection to them, and vice versa. Connection is non-physical, it's based on an emotional level and it is about how your mind and hers intertwine.

Overall, this is ultimately the case, but the details vary from person to person. Different people favour different connections, looks, actions, and people just have to look for the person that clicks both ways.

Uranus
August 30th, 2016, 04:53 PM
Tits and ass



Nah :P
While I do enjoy both those features, I like a girl who has a great personality. One who is always smiling and a little immature in a good way, and is smart and with a mix of independence and dependence.





...and tits and ass

Microcosm
August 30th, 2016, 08:36 PM
Someone who knows what's up in life you know. They're not super fake, but you can tell that they (a)are a good judge of character and (b)have practical wisdom.

I want a girl I can build off of, and who can build off of me in turn.

lliam
August 30th, 2016, 10:22 PM
In the first place for sure her good look ... or what a boy opines of what is a good look. so it depends.

Then, gradually probably her character is decisive ... if a boy is really interested in the girl ... relationship wise.

AmyUK
August 30th, 2016, 10:37 PM
I like a girl who is fun, kind of independent but also a little dependant as well, can take a joke and laugh about things but also be serious when the time is right. And be honest and kind. And loveable. And be a big kid cause that's pretty much what I am
:P

:)

EuRo
August 30th, 2016, 11:48 PM
I think these personality traits are attractive:

- Kindhearted
- Intelligent but not arrogant
- Honesty
- Not using makeup unless it's a special event
- Ability to take jokes and banter
- Ability to make jokes and dish out banter
- Not easily offended

Some of those traits at the same time can be hard to come by in any individual.

project_icarus
August 31st, 2016, 05:16 AM
It's really hard for me to say what I like about girls or anybody really because I don't really look for particular qualities in people, I more just take people for what they are and appreciate what they have. So I guess I'll just compare the common qualities in girls I have /liked/. I can't stress enough that they aren't really things that I look for, I don't have a checklist that I take out every time I meet someone :P

The legitimate opposite of pretentious.
Honest and straight up with legitimately everything... but still tactful and has your sake at heart.
Cruisy, not really making a big deal about shit that really doesn't matter... but still sentimental when it really counts.
Good at laughing. Like, funny, but can find the humour in just about anything.
Has intellectual depth. Not necessarily "smart", but intelligent, if that makes sense. For example, enjoys poetry, but probably doesn't know which King was reigning 300 years ago. The kind of person that can impart some wisdom on you, and hopefully you, on them.
Has a nice ass. Jokingnotjoking, I hope I stressed this enough but I don't /really/ care how a girl looks, so long as they aren't like Guinness-book-of-world-records level of weird, I really don't care... but that is the surefire quickest way of getting me interested in a girl, short of having a fun conversation.

Kyle37
August 31st, 2016, 12:09 PM
A girl who is mature, not so nit-picky, shares some of the political beliefs that I hold (but not all cuz that would be boring), beautiful body (meaning not fat, long hair either flowing out, curly, or tied up in a pony tail, although theres probably more that I would like. Also boobs and ass don't matter to me that much unless they are non-existent which would be a turn-off), dresses casually (I like girls when they dress more on the edgy side and show a very relaxed personality), definitely some makeup (Among the things I hate are eyeshadow, punchy lipstick, too much powder), and/or easy to talk to.

rockstaar
September 1st, 2016, 04:58 AM
Well, that's a long list, for me its all about the purity of the heart that matters.