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NickCollins
February 18th, 2014, 10:39 PM
Ok i'm gay and I'm kinda falling for one of my friend and he's straight

we fooled around last year and i really liked it but he says he didn't but we keep playing around with other over Skype(showing off our junk) and he says he likes it and i kinda lied and said i was bi and told him i had the hots for him and he said he didn't like me back which hurt but i get the vibe he's either bi or curious
and i kinda pissed him off cause he kept getting on and off Skype without talking to me or even saying he was busy and then i kinda spammed him and he blocked me and wont accept my apology(yeah i know it was kinda rude to spam him but i wasn't thinking)

Any advice

Blood
February 18th, 2014, 11:05 PM
He told you he doesn't like you, and he blocked you.

Leave him alone and move on.

DarkHorse4eva
February 19th, 2014, 03:43 AM
I think you should forget about him and move on

Living For Love
February 19th, 2014, 10:42 AM
If you're still trying to attempt a relationship with him, forget about it. However, you can still try to earn his friendship again. Apologize a bit more, maybe tell him you did that without thinking, he can eventually understand, but don't expect him to forgive you right away, you need to give him some time.

noplanhere9
February 19th, 2014, 11:26 AM
It does sound like it is time to move on, sorry

AlexOnToast
February 19th, 2014, 11:27 AM
All I can say is I hate to say it, but you need to forget the possibility of a relationship :( Friendship may still be possible however, if you can find a way of doing it without annoying him further

Obsidian
February 19th, 2014, 11:31 AM
I think a romantic relationship with him is kind of out of the question. Obviously he's either straight or confused about his sexuality, and if you guys were to be in a relationship I don't really see it working out well because he doesn't seem to know what he wants. However I think that if you want him in your life it would be possible to regain your friendship with him. Try to apologize for what happened and tell him that you care about your friendship and would like to try and work things out. If you do become friends again I think it would be a good idea to stay away from doing anything sexual together. It sounds like it just complicates things and will get in the way of you having a lasting friendship with him.

JamesSuperBoy
February 19th, 2014, 11:34 AM
Ok i'm gay and I'm kinda falling for one of my friend and he's straight

we fooled around last year and i really liked it but he says he didn't but we keep playing around with other over Skype(showing off our junk) and he says he likes it and i kinda lied and said i was bi and told him i had the hots for him and he said he didn't like me back which hurt but i get the vibe he's either bi or curious
and i kinda pissed him off cause he kept getting on and off Skype without talking to me or even saying he was busy and then i kinda spammed him and he blocked me and wont accept my apology(yeah i know it was kinda rude to spam him but i wasn't thinking)

Any advice

Never mind the vibe - you lied and spammed then expected friendship and wanted love - move on and learn from this

ashdyn
February 19th, 2014, 02:40 PM
Yeahhhhh sorry to tell you but your kinda blew your shot at him. Next time...give the other guy some time. Even if he is bi he might not be comfortable admitting that to himself yet.

Nic0 Fiend
February 19th, 2014, 05:03 PM
Sorry but your chance is long over... and there is a little to no chance that you could regain your friendship with him. You should try to apologize so more and see what happens then.. And if he does or doesn't take you back as being a friend you should still tell him that you lied and stuff!

Croconaw
February 19th, 2014, 05:07 PM
You have to move on because you literally ruined your friendship with him. It wasn't right to spam him either. Find some other friends and learn from this mistake.

NickCollins
February 19th, 2014, 08:21 PM
your right i shouldn't have spammed him and i realize i will never have a relationship with him i just hope he will accept my apologies and be my friend again
I fucked up royally and i know it
thanks for being honest