Taking More Time

[Not Matt Damon]

Hi guys,

I just realised the day before I post this thread that I should ask this with you boys. An theoretical would be great but I also appreciate your opinions.

Sex is fun, and I'm sure everyone can agree to this. Many whom I have been going out with say that I last quite longer than normal guys. But what has been my concern is that I never have been able to ejaculate while 'bonking'. I normally finish with a stroke or bj. I have no problem with masturbating, it's just when having sex. Should this be a matter to overthink?:what: Or could this just be an emotional thing because my sex partners aren't who I really feel deep in love with? I mean they weren't someone I would marry and spend the rest of my life with. I can say that they were not the apple of my eye bullshit.

WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME?!?!?!?

Thanks.

[jamie_n5]

If I understand you right you are saying that you can't orgasm when having sex but can when masturbating or getting a BJ. There is no physical reason that you shouldn't be able to cum having sex. You must have some kind of mental reason or block that is not letting you orgasm. I really don't know. If you can't resolve this on your own I would suggest seeing a phycologist man.

[Dead Account]

Now to see how long before this gets taken down.

[Just JT]

Ive had this happen when I'm not physically attracted to the person for what ever reason. So may not be that unusual. If your horny, and stimulated that's normal obviously. But to be having sex and not finishing, maybe cause your just not into that person for what ever reason. I think getting a BJ is a little different cause you can use your imagination or thoughts of your true desires

[Sean4U]

With what you have shared it is apparent that it is NOT physical. If you can get off with a HJ or a BJ there shouldn't be any physical reason not to when you are with someone else. It is obvious with the "boinking" comment that this is happening with a girl and I don't know why it would. It could be a mental block of some sorts and I agree with Jamie that if this keeps happening, see a doctor and see what he would recommend.

[Ricky.h]

Hi guys,

I just realised the day before I post this thread that I should ask this with you boys. An theoretical would be great but I also appreciate your opinions.

Sex is fun, and I'm sure everyone can agree to this. Many whom I have been going out with say that I last quite longer than normal guys. But what has been my concern is that I never have been able to ejaculate while 'bonking'. I normally finish with a stroke or bj. I have no problem with masturbating, it's just when having sex. Should this be a matter to overthink?:what: Or could this just be an emotional thing because my sex partners aren't who I really feel deep in love with? I mean they weren't someone I would marry and spend the rest of my life with. I can say that they were not the apple of my eye bullshit.

WHAT IS HAPPENING TO ME?!?!?!?


Thanks.

From experience you literally you just have to keep going until it happens and it will feel amazing once it happens, just push through! Either way it's a win win because the girl...or guy (because you didn't specify) will be getting pleasure while you're trying to get your nut

[Not Matt Damon]

Ive had this happen when I'm not physically attracted to the person for what ever reason. So may not be that unusual. If your horny, and stimulated that's normal obviously. But to be having sex and not finishing, maybe cause your just not into that person for what ever reason. I think getting a BJ is a little different cause you can use your imagination or thoughts of your true desires

Well that does make sense. I can't just keep going on like what other people are telling here in the comments because it's tiring, for both of us. I might just need to try something new to spice things up.

[Just JT]

Well that does make sense. I can't just keep going on like what other people are telling here in the comments because it's tiring, for both of us. I might just need to try something new to spice things up.

Spice things up???

Do what Jamie_n suggested, talk to your doctor.
Maybe some magic pill or something will do the trick

[Pika2001]

Is the Vagina (i assume) looser than your grip while masturbating or tightness of her mouth? If so, that may be why.