AnonFlow
August 25th, 2016, 03:23 AM
Please take your time to read Also i want to mention that this is my first flirting/relationship/girlfriend so i am unexperienced, please give me tips on how to approach her (Hug,kiss? idk) aswell as i am a lil bit shy. PLEASE HELP ME im clueless.... '
Ok so i have been having a connection with a girl, it was a bit weird but i will tell u what happened, so basically me and my friend posted a photo on instagram saying that we were bored and wanted to Dm or whatsapp, so my friend showed me this girl which lived in another city, but i live in a small country so i can be there in 15 mins or so, anyway we started flirting a bit since i knew she had a connection with me at that moment, she even started about relationships n stuff and we actually end up having a non serious relationship i guess u can say it, so i thought she acted a bit strange always saying weird stuff like la la la and idk she just didnt act as like we talked in the beginning and it just became stranger and stranger that i even though she was starting to lose interest in me cus for example we wouldve had a date on saturday but i couldnt go there anymore so she says something like, well atleast i can sleep then ;) So i then 30 mins later say that i could go because i at that moment could go there, but she out of nowhere told me she was on her way to another city so i was like Oh ok over app but in real life i had the feeling of lies against me. So a day later me and another friend decided to test her, That friend of mine decided to dm her trying to flirt with her and she went in with it which i didnt really like that much, so i got in a lil fight with her and thats when i messed up because she wasnt really flirting with that friend it was all a joke of her and i knew that because she lied about her phone still being at her mom while she was just online on whatsapp so i knew she was lying to him and making a joke, so i apologized and everything went allright after that, we texted a lot lot more and it looked like she was bringing her old personality back and it we had hours of texting which was really fun. So i always tag people on instagram when placing a photo of myself and i give her a special tag too ofcourse, so i mostly get some kiss emojis and heart emojis you know but i was curious that one time so i decided to look at who tagged her in photos and i quickly saw that see gave emojis with heart eyes,hearts,kiss emojis and even comments like : Minee with 2 hearteyes emojis. And thats when i started to lose hope because she did that to alot of other boys and they get alot of spam and i dont really get that. So also in photos she doesnt get tags on she places those emojis and texts. So we even texted about where marrying,living,kids,lifestyle and cars n stuff (all for fun ofcourse) and it looked like she really was in to me but i got this picture from someone else that u couldve choose a number between 1-14 so she picked a number and it said: ask the other for a relationship so we laughed a bit about it and she said like you should ask it to me and i said Well the real question is would you say yes or no and we just laughed a bit about it, so a bit later she picked another one and it was say something nice about me, so she said this: Well you are not stupid, i like you a LITTLE bit (with 2 kiss emojis) So from there on the conversation started to die and it just left me clueless, i have no idea what she is doing does she like me does she like someone else i dont know what to do! We have a day planned on this saturday but i dont really have that much hope anymore, so should i progress further or should i just let the connection die a bit, and if i would let it die then what do i say to not go out with her on saturday???
PLEASE HELP ASAP
Thanks
UPDATE-So do i still go out with her this saturday after everything i have been seeing and getting? If not then how do i tell her?
Ok so i have been having a connection with a girl, it was a bit weird but i will tell u what happened, so basically me and my friend posted a photo on instagram saying that we were bored and wanted to Dm or whatsapp, so my friend showed me this girl which lived in another city, but i live in a small country so i can be there in 15 mins or so, anyway we started flirting a bit since i knew she had a connection with me at that moment, she even started about relationships n stuff and we actually end up having a non serious relationship i guess u can say it, so i thought she acted a bit strange always saying weird stuff like la la la and idk she just didnt act as like we talked in the beginning and it just became stranger and stranger that i even though she was starting to lose interest in me cus for example we wouldve had a date on saturday but i couldnt go there anymore so she says something like, well atleast i can sleep then ;) So i then 30 mins later say that i could go because i at that moment could go there, but she out of nowhere told me she was on her way to another city so i was like Oh ok over app but in real life i had the feeling of lies against me. So a day later me and another friend decided to test her, That friend of mine decided to dm her trying to flirt with her and she went in with it which i didnt really like that much, so i got in a lil fight with her and thats when i messed up because she wasnt really flirting with that friend it was all a joke of her and i knew that because she lied about her phone still being at her mom while she was just online on whatsapp so i knew she was lying to him and making a joke, so i apologized and everything went allright after that, we texted a lot lot more and it looked like she was bringing her old personality back and it we had hours of texting which was really fun. So i always tag people on instagram when placing a photo of myself and i give her a special tag too ofcourse, so i mostly get some kiss emojis and heart emojis you know but i was curious that one time so i decided to look at who tagged her in photos and i quickly saw that see gave emojis with heart eyes,hearts,kiss emojis and even comments like : Minee with 2 hearteyes emojis. And thats when i started to lose hope because she did that to alot of other boys and they get alot of spam and i dont really get that. So also in photos she doesnt get tags on she places those emojis and texts. So we even texted about where marrying,living,kids,lifestyle and cars n stuff (all for fun ofcourse) and it looked like she really was in to me but i got this picture from someone else that u couldve choose a number between 1-14 so she picked a number and it said: ask the other for a relationship so we laughed a bit about it and she said like you should ask it to me and i said Well the real question is would you say yes or no and we just laughed a bit about it, so a bit later she picked another one and it was say something nice about me, so she said this: Well you are not stupid, i like you a LITTLE bit (with 2 kiss emojis) So from there on the conversation started to die and it just left me clueless, i have no idea what she is doing does she like me does she like someone else i dont know what to do! We have a day planned on this saturday but i dont really have that much hope anymore, so should i progress further or should i just let the connection die a bit, and if i would let it die then what do i say to not go out with her on saturday???
PLEASE HELP ASAP
Thanks
UPDATE-So do i still go out with her this saturday after everything i have been seeing and getting? If not then how do i tell her?