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Marcolongo
August 23rd, 2016, 01:48 PM
I'm 14 years old. I'm 5'11. I don't think I'm attractive,no one at school does. And I've never had a girlfriend in my entire life. No girl has ever looked at me with desire. No girl has every called me attractive or hot. I'm so depressed about it. So if any girls are on here please tell me if I'm attractive. I don't want anyone to say "being handsome or attractive is skin deep". That's not what I care about, it's true but, I wanna know if you would date me. If you saw me walking down the street would you think "that guys hot"??????????

I'm new so I don't have 5 posts so it won't let me post a link to a photo. So i will put space between the words so when you copy to the url box take out the spaces.

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Leprous
August 23rd, 2016, 01:56 PM
I'm 14 years old. I'm 5'11. I don't think I'm attractive,no one at school does. And I've never had a girlfriend in my entire life. No girl has ever looked at me with desire. No girl has every called me attractive or hot. I'm so depressed about it.

I'm new so I don't have 5 posts so it won't let me post a link to a photo. So i will put space between the words so when you copy to the url box take out the spaces.

You know, you're in no rush. You're only 14 don't worry about it. I was single untill I was 16 so yeah. I feel like at your age (and no offense) 'love' isn't really there. Yeah you can have a relationship but after all is it really love?

Don't force anything and don't worry about it, it's actually quite normal in my eyes. The thing is after all a relationship isn't relevant unless there is commitment and love from both sides, at your age it might not be the case and people often date just to date someone and brag about it, don't do it.

You're young! I'm sure it'll work out, you still have plenty of teenage years to come and you're in no rush!

RyderIsAMonster
August 23rd, 2016, 02:04 PM
Hey buddy, keeping it as real as I can here. You're just fine. You're good looking.

But forget that for a minute.

Your personality should be what attracts people, even without them talking to you. The way you carry yourself, the way you talk. The way you look is only the icing on the cake.

Flapjack
August 23rd, 2016, 02:11 PM
I'm 14 years old. I'm 5'11. I don't think I'm attractive,no one at school does. And I've never had a girlfriend in my entire life. No girl has ever looked at me with desire. No girl has every called me attractive or hot. I'm so depressed about it. So if any girls are on here please tell me if I'm attractive. I don't want anyone to say "being handsome or attractive is skin deep". That's not what I care about, it's true but, I wanna know if you would date me. If you saw me walking down the street would you think "that guys hot"??????????

I'm new so I don't have 5 posts so it won't let me post a link to a photo. So i will put space between the words so when you copy to the url box take out the spaces.
You look good buddy but you don't want that to be why girls are attracted to you :) Is there a girl you like? :)

jamie_n5
August 23rd, 2016, 03:26 PM
I can't get it to show me your picture sorry. I am sure that you look fine. At 14 you are still at the age when girls first get to like boys. So please don't let it worry you give it time and you will see.

Living For Love
August 24th, 2016, 08:39 AM
We don't allow "rate me" threads on VT. :locked: