What did my dream meant?

[orangeyes]

Hi, I've just woken up from a wierd and sad dream at 4am and I couldn't fall asleep because I wanted to share it here with you guys.

So It all started when I was talking to a guy (a guy who I was talking to for a while in real life) and we decided to meet up at a local Starbucks the next day.
He told me he was free that day and that we could meet and have a great time.
The next day I went to the Starbucks to meet him… But he wasn't there. So then I waited a couple of minutes, and then I decided to text him… no answer. Call him… I reached his voicemail. I started getting fed up and sad because he clearly stood me up. Then I go back to check my phone, I opened Snapchat, and I see new snaps on his snapchat story, I watched them and noticed he was with someone else (I couldn't tell if it was a guy or a girl, but most likely a guy) and was out of town. Then at that moment I threw my phone on the ground knowing nothing that was going on… and then I woke up.

What did that dream meant? Like does it mean that my brain is trying to tell me that the guy isn't a good person? Do you guys have any idea? :what:

[Flapjack]

I wouldn't look too much into it buddy!! Dreams can be a reflection of what you feel irl but if you have no reason to think he is a bad guy, I wouldn't worry about it!!:)

[Desynchronized]

No need to worry. Maybe you were just a bit stressed. I'd rather ignore it.

[Just JT]

I think dream are a way for people to work out inner conflict myself. Stuff that just can't be worked out irl. So maybe you like this guy but don't trust him and think he'd cheat on you or lie so why wast your time building a relationship with him?
And in the end you discovered that to be true. Painful as it would be, you confirmed your suspicions, in your dream (possibly) and are able to get past it now?????

Just my thoughts, did some work with my therapist about my dreams and conflict t resolution a while back. Seemed to help

[ClaraWho]

Dreams are reflections of our subconscious, often they are an array of scenarios that our mind presents during the REM stage of sleep. We actually dream multiple times a night, starting more negative and shorter, but increasing in length and positivity.

Think of it as the information/conflicts/fantasies your brain gathered but didn't have time to consciously give much attention to during the day.

Whilst a lot of dreams are meaningless, it sounds like you are insecure about not being wanted, hence the dream about him choosing someone else. Again, it's just a dream but you might want to consider why you feel that way.

Just remember that dreams aren't reality.

~ Clara

[jamie_n5]

Dreams are just your mind creating wild and weird things. I wouldn't take it seriously just as you shouldn't take your daily horoscope serious.

[ska8er]

Maybe subconsciously u want a new phone.

[Tesserax]

Hi, I've just woken up from a wierd and sad dream at 4am and I couldn't fall asleep because I wanted to share it here with you guys.

So It all started when I was talking to a guy (a guy who I was talking to for a while in real life) and we decided to meet up at a local Starbucks the next day.
He told me he was free that day and that we could meet and have a great time.
The next day I went to the Starbucks to meet him… But he wasn't there. So then I waited a couple of minutes, and then I decided to text him… no answer. Call him… I reached his voicemail. I started getting fed up and sad because he clearly stood me up. Then I go back to check my phone, I opened Snapchat, and I see new snaps on his snapchat story, I watched them and noticed he was with someone else (I couldn't tell if it was a guy or a girl, but most likely a guy) and was out of town. Then at that moment I threw my phone on the ground knowing nothing that was going on… and then I woke up.

What did that dream meant? Like does it mean that my brain is trying to tell me that the guy isn't a good person? Do you guys have any idea? :what:

Dreams evolved as a preparation mechanism, something that simulates real life to train you to deal with the situation. Chances are, this dream is one of your darkest fears and is making you experience being stood up and lied to so that you're more prepared if it actually happens.

Don't think of it as a reflection of him, just as a reflection of your own thoughts and fears.

[SethfromMI]

Dreams evolved as a preparation mechanism, something that simulates real life to train you to deal with the situation. Chances are, this dream is one of your darkest fears and is making you experience being stood up and lied to so that you're more prepared if it actually happens.

Don't think of it as a reflection of him, just as a reflection of your own thoughts and fears.

this is one of the best explanations, at least what I was thinking about.

in reality, some dreams can tell something about us and other dreams mean absolutely nothing.

I would not let your dream influence how you feel about this guy though, due to the fact dreams can mean nothing at times and it would be unfair to pin something which may not be true on him based on this dream you had. not your fault you had the dream, but just don't try to think too much into it, at least how you feel about him

[orangeyes]

Okay, thank you guys for your replies I really appreciate it. <3

Oh and by the way lol
Maybe subconsciously u want a new phone.
That's funny because I actually want a new phone😂😂