Bullying vs teasing

[Brightwolf]

What's the difference? I'm always the one getting picked on in my friend group for a number of things (I'll elaborate if necessary). It does make me feel bad about myself but I'm not sure if it's bullying because I don't think that they are meaning to make me feel bad (they don't know it does). I'm not to sure what to do about the situation or what to call it. Any help or advice?

[jamie_n5]

I would say that bullying is an intentional way to try hurt someone mentally or physically.
Teasing would be saying or doing things in a jokingly fashion and is intended to just be funny or a joke.

[everlong]

Bullying is when only one party is enjoying it
Teasing is when both parties enjoy it

[Taint]

Personally I see it as it stops become teasing when the person on the receiving end becomes upset by it and you carry on regardless.

[Just JT]

I agree here. Bullying is like it has malicious intent. They do things to I tentionally injure shame embarrass or feel bad. Teasing is just friends busting on you is all. Some people are more sensitive about that than others. All I can say is look at it like this. Guys tease the guys they like, friends...if they didn't tease you, they probably don't think of you as a friend. Just try embracing it a little and give some back and have fun. But if it really really bothers you, say something and ask them to stop ok? If there really your friends, they'll get it

[Brightwolf]

I agree here. Bullying is like it has malicious intent. They do things to I tentionally injure shame embarrass or feel bad. Teasing is just friends busting on you is all. Some people are more sensitive about that than others. All I can say is look at it like this. Guys tease the guys they like, friends...if they didn't tease you, they probably don't think of you as a friend. Just try embracing it a little and give some back and have fun. But if it really really bothers you, say something and ask them to stop ok? If there really your friends, they'll get it

Thanks. It usually doesn't bother me, but it sometimes does.

[Cadanance00]

IME teasing can turn into bullying quickly. It depends on who's doing it.

[Hadlye]

I believe, teasing is healthy. But bullying is harassing and talking bad about you or taunting about your weaknesses. Bullying naturally discourages you and lowers your confidence.

[Flapjack]

A lil bit of banter is fun between friends but it can easily go to far. It goes from banter or teasing to bullying when someone is offended or upset :)

[ClaraWho]

Teasing, banter, joshing is all friendly.

Teasing is when the comments are superficial, or obviously fake, like reversing your sexuality. They're laughed off by all parties, and the recipient gives back.

Bullying is when the attacks are personal. Like if someone is insulting your name, your family, your inabilities. The attacks are with the intent of picking out your insecurities and rubbing salt in wounds. The key here is the recipient doesn't fight back on the same below-the-belt level or at all. If the recipient responds in kind and it becomes a fight then it is even more obvious.

If anyone is acting like the latter, get rid of them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.

~ Clara