Advise

[Hermes96]

So in most of my post i talk about my Ex. Well recently my ex did 3 things
1. He left me for a girl.
2. He got ingaged after a few weeks with that girl
3. He started cutting agian.

My question is why did he tell me/show me the scars? He ended it with me and made me feel shit so why did he come to me with this problem not his GF? He also knows that before we were togeather i'd cut. whilst we were togeather i finally managed to stop for over 4 months then he left me it's been a constant strugle to not start again. So why is he coming to me and tell me this when he tells me he doesn't want to talk. I finaly asked him why and he's not spoken to me since. What do i do i dont want to go back and befriend him as i know we'll just end p hurting each other a lot more

[DarkHorse4eva]

Maybe he hoped you would care, cuz maybe his girlfriend don't care about his cutting

[Hermes96]

true but i hate the fact that i care i've tried to hate him but its all i can to to stop myself from forgiving him because if i do that we'll just get hurt all over again

[myfoodisnotshared]

Maybe he feels you'll understand? He feels he needs you because you've always been his emotional support and you managed to stop, but at the same time he's got his girlfriend and he's your ex and it's all confused for him. Needing you, worrying about being 'that guy', cutting more, going back to needing you, panicking because he feels pressured... guys can be dicks when they don't know what to do.

I can't tell you what to do, though it sounds really tough. Do you feel like he's using you? Do you feel you're helping him by staying in contact? Do you want him back? So many questions, and no nice answers I'm afraid:-( Do what you think is best, I think you have the right view with 'together we just hurt each other'.