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Dalcourt
August 17th, 2016, 10:47 PM
We have a new guy in our class...and I kinda had a crush on him the first moment I saw him.
Problem.... apart from the fact that I don't think he's gay...he seems to be quite the "bad guy" type.
It's clear that he has massive anger issues, loves to fight verbally and esp. physically and is overall rather violent and aggressive.

I always seem to be attracted to this kind of guys and for obvious reasons those relationships never really work out and are usually at least borderline abusive.

Does anyone experience something similar?
How can I stop being attracted to this wrong type?

jamie_n5
August 18th, 2016, 12:08 PM
You just need to look for guys that aren't into doing bad things or are violent. It is pretty simple. Stay away from guys that you feel are bad or a bad influence.

Flapjack
August 18th, 2016, 12:10 PM
Dude if we could control who we fall for the world would be a better place!! I would say avoid bad guys and try good guys but if you're not attracted to good guys, there's not much you can do!!

Just JT
August 18th, 2016, 12:19 PM
Dude yeah, avoid guys with anger issues. It won't end well trust me.
Dream and fantasies cool, but unless he can control the anger, they take it out on the ones closest to them caus they see it as ok