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cutencuddly
August 17th, 2016, 07:36 AM
Is it weird to want to mutually masturbate with your best friend.
I have been friends with my bestie and ive always had a slight attraction to her:wub::wub:.
We don't allow asking for advice on how to get others to do something sexual with you. ~Elysium

ClaraWho
August 17th, 2016, 10:26 AM
You need to include an option for;

No, that's rather trashy (to me) and if you find her attractive why don't you date?

~ Clara

ashleigh7
August 17th, 2016, 01:56 PM
No...I don't think so.

Taryn98
August 17th, 2016, 09:17 PM
Yes, I think this is weird. I simply don't understand why anyone would mutually masturbate. If I'm there with another person and naked, why wouldn't we do something TO each other. I can masturbate anytime. If someone else is there, I'd rather we finger each other or better yet give each other oral. It's much more pleasurable.

Phosphene
August 17th, 2016, 09:27 PM
I wouldn't do it. Just never seemed right to me. If I'm going to masturbate I would feel more comfortable being alone. That however does not give me the power to judge anyone who would readily do it with a friend or wants to. Do whatever YOU feel comfortable with and if you ever act on it, make sure your friend is comfortable with it too.

SkyClad33605
August 18th, 2016, 05:46 PM
As long as you are both into it then there's nothing wrong.

However you should never pressure anyone into doing anything they are uncomfortable with. Even if you think they will like it after they get over the discomfort it's still not ok.

Beach_Blonde
August 18th, 2016, 08:39 PM
I do not think it is weird at all, I think it is normal. I have mutually masturbated with several of my friends and squad members.

Yes, I think this is weird. I simply don't understand why anyone would mutually masturbate. If I'm there with another person and naked, why wouldn't we do something TO each other. I can masturbate anytime. If someone else is there, I'd rather we finger each other or better yet give each other oral. It's much more pleasurable.

I think that mutual masturbation without like touching one another is a good way to explore your sexuality without like pushing the boundary of what they are comfortable with. I mean some of the girls I have done it with are straight, or mainly straight and don't really want to go that far with another girl. But at the same time they still want to explore and find it stimulating to watch another girl.

You need to include an option for;

No, that's rather trashy (to me) and if you find her attractive why don't you date?

~ Clara

I don't really get how it is trashy. Not everyone wants to be in a relationship, and not everything sexually should be strictly confined to a relationship. I mean for me and my friends it is just a way to relieve stress, have fun, and really like take our friendship to a deeper level. I'm not just masturbating in front of every girl I know or am friends with, but mainly only my really close friends who have already seen me naked and who literally know pretty much everything about me

LanaPole
August 19th, 2016, 06:16 AM
just for fun. i dont think it's weird

kentucky girl
August 19th, 2016, 08:08 AM
No, it is not weird, I've done it with many of my friends and always enjoyed it

leoyuo
August 19th, 2016, 11:50 AM
No, it is not weird i think

TheSix25
August 20th, 2016, 12:21 AM
I think it's natural but I'd never do it.

amelia_
September 3rd, 2016, 11:43 AM
No, it is not weird, I've done it with many of my friends and always enjoyed it

what was it like for you? was it awkward asking? how did they react? i've thought about asking my friend but its really awkward.

AmyUK
September 3rd, 2016, 02:43 PM
I've done it before, and I don't really think it's weird. And to answer about why not touch each other, because maybe you don't want to go to that stage? It's exciting watching each other and knowing what the other person is doing.

Snjezana
September 7th, 2016, 10:10 PM
It's not weird at all, I believe its natural...
Me and my bestie love doing it together, its so exciting to share experiences. So dont be shy, just enjoy.

MaeFae
September 8th, 2016, 04:15 PM
I don't think it's wrong. I've only done it once and I loved it, something about it was so thrilling. Hoping to get another shot eventually!

LITTLEANGEL19
September 10th, 2016, 08:49 AM
My friends and myself have done it together many many times we love it. It's just watching each-other :yes:

Caledonia
September 10th, 2016, 03:45 PM
Not something I would do but I guess if youre both ok with it then I see nothing wrong

vision16
September 10th, 2016, 04:49 PM
there is nothin wrong with it long as you both enjoy it

shamrockgirl02
September 17th, 2016, 04:17 PM
Definitely not weird, very fun and a way to explore your sexuality without really crossing any lines, imo

dorientje_xx
September 24th, 2016, 04:03 PM
I think its natural. I wanted it with my best friend as well.

For me I was exploring sexuality and was wondering if she was as well. As I started with masturbation, that was the first thing I would like to know from her. Furthermore I was very interested in how she would enjoy and what she would look like while having an orgasm.

MaeFae
September 24th, 2016, 06:27 PM
I think it's entirely fine. Just gotta be careful, never know how they might react you know?

Madison78
September 26th, 2016, 08:25 PM
I've done it plenty of times. nothing weird about it.

Cangirl
September 27th, 2016, 07:50 PM
I don't think its weird to want to. Its a turn on being naked with somebody so I think things kinda natural happen :)

Katie96xox
October 6th, 2016, 11:31 AM
There's absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating with friends. I do it regularly and I am sure many others do it. It's completely naturals to do it and to want to do it.

Cori
October 12th, 2016, 05:11 AM
Why should anything that feels so good be bad or wrong or weird? Masturbating with my bff was my first sexual experience and I love where it took me!

Miss Ophelia
October 14th, 2016, 02:53 PM
If someone else is there, I'd rather we finger each other or better yet give each other oral. It's much more pleasurable.

Yes. This is the way to go if you are both interested in each other.

Janie
October 18th, 2016, 10:25 AM
I think it is completely acceptable and have done it a couple of times with my bestie. The first time was completely solo, but the second time we helped each other a bit. It's really cool watching someone orgasm and know that they are watching you as well. :yummy:

Svetlana2000
December 1st, 2016, 08:38 AM
my bestie and i have done it before we actually got down on each other. was nice to practise and explore. but since we have done it all the way it would have been weird if we just lay side-by-side and masturbate... instead of having fun together!

Mina
December 10th, 2016, 11:41 AM
Oh yea it's natural :) me and my bff do this a lot and sometimes oral and kissing too. I love it feels so good n it makes us closer n closer <3

playfull-qt
December 16th, 2016, 01:22 AM
Yes, I think this is weird. I simply don't understand why anyone would mutually masturbate. If I'm there with another person and naked, why wouldn't we do something TO each other. I can masturbate anytime. If someone else is there, I'd rather we finger each other or better yet give each other oral. It's much more pleasurable.


I have to agree. This is one of those situations that "look but don't touch" doesn't apply.;););)

veroda
February 24th, 2017, 05:51 PM
No its not creepy. Ive never done this but tbh Id be curious to try it

Elysium
February 24th, 2017, 06:28 PM
No its not creepy. Ive never done this but tbh Id be curious to try it
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