Never Been Kissed

[foxsandfairies]

Okay, so this is my first post, and I'm not sure if it should even go on this forum or another. But this one made sense to me.
I'm 16, and I have never been kissed. Ever. Not even a peck on the lips. I don't know why... Is something wrong with me?
Please help, I'm really confused.

[Sublime Demonz]

It's totally normal for you not to have your first kiss at 16! Some of my friends who are older than that haven't been kissed either. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. I got my first kiss shortly before turning 17, and I didn't think anyone would ever kiss me until I was proved wrong. Just be patient, it will come when the time is right, with the right person.

[Flapjack]

There's nothing wrong with you buddy!!! There's no rush :) Is there a girl you like?:)

[Kuroshiro]

I got my first kiss at 17 so it's not like you need to rush in to anything, I'm sure you'll get one so don't worry about it since there's nothing wrong with you.

[Hideous]

I had my first kiss this summer. Take it slow. Start with a peck on the cheek, then a smooch, and then take it wherever.

Advice: don't tense up and go with the flow. Follow their lips and reciprocate.

Wait for the right person, who can teach you and won't make it as awkward :)

[ska8er]

There is nothing wrong with u-u just haven't
found the right person yet. Are u shy? Do u
make friends easily? Zero in to one guy that
may seem shy to u and smile and make friends.
I know it is difficult but u have to take the first
step-then c how it plays out.

[Just JT]

Have you ever meet someone you wanted to kiss?

[Bmble_B]

Don't worry about it like everyone else said there's no rush. I'm turning 16 in a month and haven't had mine yet either :P

[Phosphene]

Like the above posters said, there's no rush in getting your first kiss. There's nothing wrong with you. After all, being patient and waiting for the right person will make it so much better than wasting it on someone you don't care about.

[everlong]

There are tons of people who never got their first kiss until ages pass 16, you're fine. Don't worry.

[Elysium]

I am older than you and I have also never been kissed (and most of my friends haven't either). Don't worry about it. It'll happen when it happens.

[Devinsoccer]

Okay, so this is my first post, and I'm not sure if it should even go on this forum or another. But this one made sense to me.
I'm 16, and I have never been kissed. Ever. Not even a peck on the lips. I don't know why... Is something wrong with me?
Please help, I'm really confused.

Even though I'm 14 I have yet to be kissed either. Nothing is wrong with you. You just haven't felt the desire or love to kiss some1 yet

[Zachary G]

It's totally normal for you not to have your first kiss at 16! Some of my friends who are older than that haven't been kissed either. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. I got my first kiss shortly before turning 17, and I didn't think anyone would ever kiss me until I was proved wrong. Just be patient, it will come when the time is right, with the right person.

dont rush it, it will happen for you when you least expect it.

[City Kid]

Teen Sexuality and Gender :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[jamie_n5]

There is nothing wrong with you. People don't always get kissed real young. A lot of parents don't allow their kids to date until like 16 so don't be worried.

[Tesserax]

Okay, so this is my first post, and I'm not sure if it should even go on this forum or another. But this one made sense to me.
I'm 16, and I have never been kissed. Ever. Not even a peck on the lips. I don't know why... Is something wrong with me?
Please help, I'm really confused.

Yo, I only had my first kiss 10 months ago and I'm only 17, so like, if you make it to 17 with no kiss then congrats! You're on par with me.

But really, there's nothing wrong. It probably just says that you're good at picking people, and you're really picky because you know what you want and need :)

[BrokenWingedPegasus]

Don't worry about it, you still have plenty of time. I've also never kissed anyone before and I never had a crush on anyone yet, so don't worry :)

[Darkslidex7]

I've already been in 2 relationships, and still haven't had a kiss yet. :whoops:

[Shrinjay]

Perhaps I am not properly equipped to answer your question, as I am 2 years younger than you, but I'll try my best.

Usually when I feel sadness for never even holding a girl's hand, I remind myself of two points.

1. Why is this making me sad? Who said that I must have interaction with a girl at my age? Why should I feel unloved for this? I have family, I have country, and I have my ideals. I have everything I would die for, what else really matters in life?

2. What consequences are there for not having interaction with girls? Who cares if others make fun of me, their opinions mean nothing. Their opinions are just that, opinions, not facts. Facts are real, fundamental things proved by science. Opinions are defined by us.

It's a very logical way of thinking about it, but it works. There is no consequence, and there is no logical reason it should make me sad. I guess that's the pain point, think through your issues logically.

By the way, and this advice may be a bit unorthodox, but listen to Death Metal. I'm not joking. Whenever I have an emotional dilemma, I listen to Children of Bodom or Eluviete. The harshness, the noise, the chaos, they have an ability to make you forget about everything around you, and think through things objectively.

[RyderIsAMonster]

Seems like a big deal right now, but don't rush it. Wait for someone who matters. You're fine.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Actually kissingbis not as cool as it seems. Better wait for someone that's worth the hype. :)