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CookieBase
August 13th, 2016, 03:50 PM
So I've been going out with this girl for a while, but recently it doesn't feel like she's interested in me anymore
She doesn't text as much as she used to, doesn't want to cuddle when she sleep together and has cancelled multiple dates in the last couple months to hang with her friends instead. Do yous think she's bored of me or lost interest? Any advice?

Flapjack
August 13th, 2016, 03:55 PM
Yeah sorry buddy it does sound like that!! I'd try talking about it with her so you can fix the problem :)

Drewboyy
August 13th, 2016, 04:11 PM
yep, talking to her is the better solution

CookieBase
August 13th, 2016, 04:29 PM
yep, talking to her is the better solution

I spoke to her a couple weeks ago, she said she hasn't lost interest and didn't know why she was acting like this, but it doesn't stop the feelings that she's bored or something

Drewboyy
August 13th, 2016, 04:31 PM
I spoke to her a couple weeks ago, she said she hasn't lost interest and didn't know why she was acting like this, but it doesn't stop the feelings that she's bored or something

A couple weeks ago is quite a long time, especially for a possible failing relationship.

jamie_n5
August 13th, 2016, 04:55 PM
Well just keep talking to her and being yourself and give her your support and understanding and she will hopefully come around. Good Luck.

Polina
August 15th, 2016, 08:01 AM
Ignore her in response. If she is interested in you, she will probably worry. And if not, you will know that she doesn't like you for sure.