Help With First time Please

[Drewboyy]

It may be my first time having sex soon but help please!

I have no idea what I'm doing, lol

[Just JT]

Ok so have a couple ideas here. What exactly do you not know anything about? I'm pretty sure you know the mechanics of it and all. That's even taught in school. There's plenty of websites (not porn) that can help with that also. Is it something else about sex your not getting?



But also, and no offense, but if you have questions about sex like this, then I'd say yiur mot ready for sex. Sex is a big deal. And if your not ready for it you may very well end up not having a good experience your first time. Might feel ready if your horny and all. There's an emotional lied to stuff with sex that you may not be ready for. End of day, without getting to deep on this one one post I think you should reconsider your current plans until you know what your doing and are truly ready for sex. There's a lot to it.

[Curious Abi]

I've had sex a few times and assuming your having it with a girl, make sure to be gentle and try and figure out what she likes. Nobody is great on their first time but I can guarantee that if you do well at first they will most likely want more. Don't rush down to 3rd base take it slow and build up the climax gradually. Also is it her first time? As remember she is probably as nervous as you are.

[Drewboyy]

I've had sex a few times and assuming your having it with a girl, make sure to be gentle and try and figure out what she likes. Nobody is great on their first time but I can guarantee that if you do well at first they will most likely want more. Don't rush down to 3rd base take it slow and build up the climax gradually. Also is it her first time? As remember she is probably as nervous as you are.


Yeah, you're correct about it being a girl and it's her first time

[jamie_n5]

If you are unsure and feel uncomfortable with this I would wait for a while. It is no rush and losing your virginity should be a very special thing for both of you so don't think you have to do this right now. Talk about things with each other and answer each others questions and ease the tension. I hope things work out for you two.

[Just JT]

Drewboyy think of some of the stuff I said last night in pm about this. And now Janie_n saying this.

Bro you only got 1 and its "the one" then that's great you'll figure it out together with no awkward or bad feelings. Just talk to her, with her. If that's to awkward then I'd say yiur not ready. If you rush, and it's not what you wanted, it's to late.



If you are unsure and feel uncomfortable with this I would wait for a while. It is no rush and losing your virginity should be a very special thing for both of you so don't think you have to do this right now. Talk about things with each other and answer each others questions and ease the tension. I hope things work out for you two.

[Dalcourt]

If you talk and can't figure out what you what and it's all still too awkward I think you should wait.
You will know when you are ready and it will work on it's own if it's the right time.

[Cadanance00]

Uhh, it's like, not rocket science?

[damon_fl]

admit that its ur first time and be patient w urself. dont expect urself to be perfect

the first girl i had sex w wasnt a virgin but she knew i was. she sorta gave me hints n was patient and it was amazing for both of us.