Can't get over a girl...

[Miserabilia]

this is why I hate my puberty brain:

There's this girl, and I've always thought she was great, and sometimes I would really crush on her.
But then, lately, it's been much less and I've liked plenty of other girls too.

But for some reason, whenever I'm near this girl, I still get that weird thing where you start acting weird and your body does weird things and I get very very awkward...

Anyone else have this problem?
It's not like I'm madly in love with her, I think she's great, but I just don't know why my brain can't get over it

[DarkHorse4eva]

i've had that problem a lot of times, i've figured that if it passes within 3 months it's just a crush, and if it last longer it clearly love.

i've tried to stop thinking about the person in 21 days, and it helps

[Miserabilia]

i've had that problem a lot of times, i've figured that if it passes within 3 months it's just a crush, and if it last longer it clearly love.

i've tried to stop thinking about the person in 21 days, and it helps

Oh, I won't be too specific, but it's definetly been longer than 3 months.
*cough* more than a 2 years *couch*

[DarkHorse4eva]

oh, wow...
it's more than just a crush then O.o
maybe it's more than just puberty brain

[Miserabilia]

oh, wow...
it's more than just a crush then O.o
maybe it's more than just puberty brain

/:
I don't know either

[DarkHorse4eva]

let time figure it all :)

[goundy]

this is why I hate my puberty brain:

There's this girl, and I've always thought she was great, and sometimes I would really crush on her.
But then, lately, it's been much less and I've liked plenty of other girls too.

But for some reason, whenever I'm near this girl, I still get that weird thing where you start acting weird and your body does weird things and I get very very awkward...

Anyone else have this problem?
It's not like I'm madly in love with her, I think she's great, but I just don't know why my brain can't get over it

"This is why I hate my puberty brain"

Lol it could not have been worded better. You're at the mercy of your hormonal half developed brain and it's going to mess with you for the next 5 years.

This is your biology kicking in -- there is nothing to worry about. Your question is allong the lines of, 'I want to get back to normal' but I'm afraid this is 'you' my friend. This is your normal and there isn't another reality you can escape to.

Just own it as best you can.

[CharlieHorse]

what's wrong with her?

[Miserabilia]

"This is why I hate my puberty brain"

Lol it could not have been worded better. You're at the mercy of your hormonal half developed brain and it's going to mess with you for the next 5 years.

This is your biology kicking in -- there is nothing to worry about. Your question is allong the lines of, 'I want to get back to normal' but I'm afraid this is 'you' my friend. This is your normal and there isn't another reality you can escape to.

Just own it as best you can.

Thanks :)

what's wrong with her?

Nothing, It's just that I didn't expect to be weird around her for this long.

[radsniper]

this has happened on more than one occasion especially with the 15 year old in my other post so i think goundy may have solved my problem too