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TomA
August 6th, 2016, 05:40 PM
Hi,
Next week I'm going on holiday with a few of my friends. I will be sharing a room with them. Is it ok if I jerk in my bed at night or would that be weirded and make things arkward between us?
Do u guys jerk when ur at a friend's sleepover/ on holiday with them?
If he jerks then what should I do? Should I acknowledge it or should i just leave him alone to finish?

Thanks

jamie_n5
August 6th, 2016, 06:05 PM
You could always do it in the bathroom. If your friend is jerking you could just join him.

Just JT
August 6th, 2016, 08:04 PM
Follow your instincts at that time.

I'll bet at some point in time somebody's guna make a comment about it. Then BOOM!!!
The doors open and it's open for conversation.

I'm pretty sure their thinking the same kinda stuff

mcdaniels
August 6th, 2016, 09:05 PM
id say bring up the topic and see what they say about it, most likely yous will all have it in your heads what its like to jack off together.. lots of guys do it

ska8er
August 6th, 2016, 09:50 PM
I agree with Jamie_n above.
I wouldn't just watch him-that
would b awkward.

NZPerson
August 6th, 2016, 10:39 PM
Depends on the situation

pageninetynine
August 6th, 2016, 10:54 PM
I'd just go into the bathroom and wank if I were you.

cookie12
August 6th, 2016, 11:39 PM
I think you should just like wank in the bathroom/shower or in the room when you are alone. If you catch him in the act you could ask if you could join and just wank off together.

Corvonius
August 6th, 2016, 11:53 PM
Hi,
Next week I'm going on holiday with a few of my friends. I will be sharing a room with them. Is it ok if I jerk in my bed at night or would that be weirded and make things arkward between us?
Do u guys jerk when ur at a friend's sleepover/ on holiday with them?
If he jerks then what should I do? Should I acknowledge it or should i just leave him alone to finish?

Thanks

I guess it depends on how close you guys are. If your super good friends, I would personally just ask him/ them about it, if your not such good friends, it might be better to just not. I have never jerked off at a friends house before, so these are my best guesses. Hope that helps! :D

Glis25
August 7th, 2016, 12:23 AM
i would just wait until i get to shower or have some alone time

Canadian Dream
August 8th, 2016, 11:08 AM
I mean do you plan on your friends noticing? It would probably be a good idea to ask them first because it could get awkward pretty fast if they catch you doing it. Unless you don't care if you're caught I guess.

Lodan
August 8th, 2016, 11:26 AM
I think play it by ear and see what happens. It might be an idea to not do it, depending on how long the holiday is for

Or you could find some time in the shower.

Zachary G
August 8th, 2016, 11:33 AM
Its totally up to you, there is always the bathroom and shower to have your private time. If you notice that he is doing it in his bed, I wouldnt say anything about it and just kinda join in and get yours, too. No harm, no foul.

I have been in that situation, but ours was a different kind of friendship where we were all very open about it and not embarrassed by anyone doing it.

mike16m
August 8th, 2016, 11:54 AM
if your gonna do it id do it in the shower

Skylark
August 8th, 2016, 02:39 PM
If I were you I'd just wait until they were asleep or go in the bathroom or something. It would definitely be weird if everyone was just laying there staring at the ceiling and you pulled out your cock and started wanking :D
Or if someone else is doing it, I'd join them :P

ValentinClarke
August 9th, 2016, 11:44 AM
Hi,
Next week I'm going on holiday with a few of my friends. I will be sharing a room with them. Is it ok if I jerk in my bed at night or would that be weirded and make things arkward between us?
Do u guys jerk when ur at a friend's sleepover/ on holiday with them?
If he jerks then what should I do? Should I acknowledge it or should i just leave him alone to finish?

Thanks
Hey man,
Try and bring up the topic of wanking at some point, just like joke about it.
Personally, I would just ask or say "I might be some time in the bathroom man, I'm jerking off"or something. If the other guy is jerking off, that's fine- IF you feel comfortable. If you don't say it. You could jerk in your bed under the sheets, or just go to the bathroom and do it, or in the shower/bath. Whenever man.

Sean4U
August 13th, 2016, 02:42 PM
If these guys are friends of yours and it hasn't come up yet, then I would suggest that you find some alone time. I'm gay and guys I stay with know that and there have been times that I have done it with them and times when I knew it wasn't a good idea. You are the only one that knows the guys that you are with, so use your own instincts.

Joel99
August 13th, 2016, 03:51 PM
I'd personally use the bathroom or shower if I really needed to jerk off.

Bluebyrd
August 13th, 2016, 05:29 PM
If you want to do it and you're just nervous to provoke the situation, I recommend doing it discretely and letting them 'catch you' to see their reaction.

pjones
August 13th, 2016, 05:50 PM
if you would be offended it they did it, then most likely they'll be offended if you do did it too. talk to each other. you're all boys and dealing with the same stuff

Jtyler
August 14th, 2016, 12:12 AM
I've had sleepovers and just did it when everyone was sleeping

HANDsum
August 14th, 2016, 01:53 AM
Hi,
Next week I'm going on holiday with a few of my friends. I will be sharing a room with them. Is it ok if I jerk in my bed at night or would that be weirded and make things arkward between us?
Do u guys jerk when ur at a friend's sleepover/ on holiday with them?
If he jerks then what should I do? Should I acknowledge it or should i just leave him alone to finish?

Thanks

I just had my 1st big circle jerk and I reckon its awesome to jerk off with your buds. Id say go for it bro. If youre not shy then get cranking n see what they say. Maybe start off by showing your boner n telling them you need to jerk n is it ok with them if you do. If you hear/see any of them going at it n say " Ahh thats what Im about to do" n see what they say;)
Keep us posted bro. would love to know how you got on.....

HFrint
May 4th, 2019, 05:54 PM
I’d leave him
Alone to finish unless he seems to not care. If you have own beds and can do it super quietly then do it. Or you can wank it the shower.

justa16yearoldaussie
May 6th, 2019, 08:37 AM
i wouldn't jerk off, but if you really feel the urge do it in the bathroom, unless he's down to join in with u lol

Tom2006
May 6th, 2019, 05:26 PM
like others have said best in the shower or wait till everyone is asleep unless you know them real well

Diable rouge
May 6th, 2019, 09:15 PM
I would do it in the bathroom. If others start to wank and you can see them, you can ask them if you can join them, if you want to. After all, they are already doing it publicly.

Cosmic_Solar
May 6th, 2019, 09:52 PM
I love how people are still replying to this thread and giving advice even tho it was posted in 2016 lol.


(No offence intended)

Cycler21
May 6th, 2019, 11:11 PM
id say bring up the topic and see what they say about it, most likely yous will all have it in your heads what its like to jack off together.. lots of guys do it

just talk it through

Franciscofixe
May 7th, 2019, 11:42 AM
A couple months ago I went on a trip with my friends. We were 4 including me, in the same room. I jerked off in the bed at night. I think that have not masturbated. If i caught one jerking I would join in. Or if someone caught me I would say for them to join. We are all boys and we all do it.
So if you jerk off at night it is not weird.

Me and my camping friends jerk off together when we are at night in the same tent.

biboy2
May 8th, 2019, 12:35 AM
I say jerk in the bathroom or shower unless someone brings it up. You could also start a conversation about i and see how everyone feels about it, but that might be a bit risky. I've jerked with a friend before but it was just the two of us, not a group

Oscar-V3.0
May 8th, 2019, 05:23 AM
Hi,
Next week I'm going on holiday with a few of my friends. I will be sharing a room with them. Is it ok if I jerk in my bed at night or would that be weirded and make things arkward between us?
Do u guys jerk when ur at a friend's sleepover/ on holiday with them?
If he jerks then what should I do? Should I acknowledge it or should i just leave him alone to finish?

Thanks
I have done it at a friend's house, but only when I was alone and when he couldn't see me

ItIsKai
May 8th, 2019, 06:08 AM
I have done it at a friend's house, but only when I was alone and when he couldn't see me

So you mean, like in a bathroom or something? or just while he wasn't looking?

Oscar-V3.0
May 8th, 2019, 06:16 AM
So you mean, like in a bathroom or something? or just while he wasn't looking?

In the room, separate, or when we are in the same room when he is sleeping lol

ShineintheDark
May 8th, 2019, 06:17 AM
I love how people are still replying to this thread and giving advice even tho it was posted in 2016 lol.


(No offence intended)

Yeah it's probably gonna get locked by a mod for getting bumped (you're not meant to respond to threads that have been dead for more than 2 months so I think 3 years counts).