I think this girl ruined my life...

[dreamofdante]

A while back I met a girl through school and we hit it off and had a lot of things in common and we ended up deciding that we might be interested in dating each other and she ended up telling me that she loves me. I had definitely felt the same and told her so. So we ended up being together for a little bit until suddenly she sent me lyrics to a song saying she didn't want me because she'd rather be alone right now. So I go into a rampant spiral of depression as many of you have seen and then a while later I messaged her on Facebook. I asked her if she'd be in my life again and give me another shot but then she told me she had gotten back with her ex-boyfriend. This REALLY threw me over the edge.

What the fuck did I do wrong that she had to lie and end up hurting me in the biggest way possible? Even now, I still love her to some extent and she's back and happy with her ex. Now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. So yeah here I am. I fell in love with her and now the way she ends it and hurt me so bad...I think she ruined my life because honestly I haven't wanted to live since she broke it off. What do I do guys?

[Miserabilia]

It must sound stupid, but I guess the best you can do is just move on, she made it clear she doesn't want it so if you want to seem strong you should carry on, if you are hurt she wins

[dreamofdante]

It must sound stupid, but I guess the best you can do is just move on, she made it clear she doesn't want it so if you want to seem strong you should carry on, if you are hurt she wins

She already sort of did win then...I mean love is hard to get rid of. In fact, love sometimes never goes away. And now that I'm out of her life she gets what she wants but I'm left thinking I'll never find someone because this is all I'll get...And yes I did try to kill myself the night she broke it off so harshly.

[Body odah Man]

A while back I met a girl through school and we hit it off and had a lot of things in common and we ended up deciding that we might be interested in dating each other and she ended up telling me that she loves me. I had definitely felt the same and told her so. So we ended up being together for a little bit until suddenly she sent me lyrics to a song saying she didn't want me because she'd rather be alone right now. So I go into a rampant spiral of depression as many of you have seen and then a while later I messaged her on Facebook. I asked her if she'd be in my life again and give me another shot but then she told me she had gotten back with her ex-boyfriend. This REALLY threw me over the edge.

What the fuck did I do wrong that she had to lie and end up hurting me in the biggest way possible? Even now, I still love her to some extent and she's back and happy with her ex. Now she doesn't want to talk to me anymore. So yeah here I am. I fell in love with her and now the way she ends it and hurt me so bad...I think she ruined my life because honestly I haven't wanted to live since she broke it off. What do I do guys?

Woww that si rlly sad :(
I cried after reading this man. I hope things work out with you.

[Obsidian]

Well no matter what feelings you have for this girl and no matter how strong they might be they aren't worth your life. I know it's really hard to cope with losing someone who means a lot to you, but you shouldn't let it make you feel like you're never going to experience the same feelings again. I'm sure you will have many more relationships in the future, and eventually one that truly lasts.

This girl claimed to love you but the way that she treated you says otherwise. Obviously she doesn't take relationships too seriously if she's able to jump from one relationship right to another when she apparently had really strong feelings for you. Someone like that isn't worth your time. And even though you still have feelings for her you have to realize that you deserve better than that.

It's not easy to get over someone but it is possible. Focus on other things and try to get your mind off of her. It's not as if she's the only thing to live for. There's many things in life that will make you happy and that are worth staying alive for. She doesn't have to be a part of your life for you to be happy.

Give it time and it will become easier to live without her. And you will find a better relationship in the future.

[DarkHorse4eva]

You didn't do anything wrong at all, its all her. she played with your feelings and broke your heart.

[dreamofdante]

Woww that si rlly sad :(
I cried after reading this man. I hope things work out with you.

Aww I'm sorry if that made you cry but thank you very much for your kind words.

Well no matter what feelings you have for this girl and no matter how strong they might be they aren't worth your life. I know it's really hard to cope with losing someone who means a lot to you, but you shouldn't let it make you feel like you're never going to experience the same feelings again. I'm sure you will have many more relationships in the future, and eventually one that truly lasts.

This girl claimed to love you but the way that she treated you says otherwise. Obviously she doesn't take relationships too seriously if she's able to jump from one relationship right to another when she apparently had really strong feelings for you. Someone like that isn't worth your time. And even though you still have feelings for her you have to realize that you deserve better than that.

It's not easy to get over someone but it is possible. Focus on other things and try to get your mind off of her. It's not as if she's the only thing to live for. There's many things in life that will make you happy and that are worth staying alive for. She doesn't have to be a part of your life for you to be happy.

Give it time and it will become easier to live without her. And you will find a better relationship in the future.

I hope I can find a relationship and I hope I can regain trust in women again. Thank you.

You didn't do anything wrong at all, its all her. she played with your feelings and broke your heart.

I know and you're right...But I feel like I'm partially the bad guy for falling for her...

[DarkHorse4eva]

I know and you're right...But I feel like I'm partially the bad guy for falling for her...

there's nothing bad in falling for her, and especially nothing bad in starting a relationship with her

you didn't do anything bad at all

[dreamofdante]

there's nothing bad in falling for her, and especially nothing bad in starting a relationship with her

you didn't do anything bad at all

Now I'm afraid to fall for anyone...

[DarkHorse4eva]

it's sad that one stupid girl ruins it for some other girls, who might be into you

[dreamofdante]

it's sad that one stupid girl ruins it for some other girls, who might be into you

Girls aren't into me so in a way that's good because I might push them away if they were.

[DarkHorse4eva]

still, she ruined it and that might have ruined your relationship with a lot of girls

[dreamofdante]

still, she ruined it and that might have ruined your relationship with a lot of girls

Things weren't working out before but I imagine this won't help.

[DarkHorse4eva]

sorry
i don't really have an advice to how you can become confident again and find a girl, but i wish you best of luck

[dreamofdante]

sorry
i don't really have an advice to how you can become confident again and find a girl, but i wish you best of luck

Thanks friend. I appreciate it.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Hey its ok, sometimes love doesn't work out and it leaves is in complete pieces, sometimes its hard to move on. And yes I've been there. Just think now you guys aren't dating its a brilliant opportunity to find someone even better, you just got to keep your head up high and try your hardest to move on. I'm here if you need to talk. ;)

[DarkHorse4eva]

Thanks friend. I appreciate it.

feel free to PM me if you want to talk, i'm always up for a good chat :)

[dreamofdante]

Hey its ok, sometimes love doesn't work out and it leaves is in complete pieces, sometimes its hard to move on. And yes I've been there. Just think now you guys aren't dating its a brilliant opportunity to find someone even better, you just got to keep your head up high and try your hardest to move on. I'm here if you need to talk. ;)

Aww I would like to think so. Thanks a lot. I really appreciate it and I might PM you :)

feel free to PM me if you want to talk, i'm always up for a good chat :)

Aww thanks! I definitely will.

[Fanta_Lover44]

Aww I would like to think so. Thanks a lot. I really appreciate it and I might PM you :)



Aww thanks! I definitely will.

Always feel free, I love helping people, I've always got the time and i'll happily listen. ;)

[dreamofdante]

Always feel free, I love helping people, I've always got the time and i'll happily listen. ;)

Thank you Kyle :D

[DarkHorse4eva]

Aww thanks! I definitely will.

i'm on almost all day, so write anytime you want :-)

[dreamofdante]

i'm on almost all day, so write anytime you want :-)

Thanks I will :D

[DarkHorse4eva]

you're welcome :)