Little pleasure from handjobs and blowjobs

[Salad_Baby]

So I'm in a new relationship, and we've got to the blowjob/handjob stage. Issue is that when she does it, I feel little sexual pleasure. I'm only able to ejaculate after I jerk myself off and then she finishes, or the other way around - either way it involves me getting involved, which upsets her. Any way to fix this? I'm uncircumcised btw.

[Just JT]

Well, before this gets Locked what I'll say is this. When you masturbate you know what you like, and don't need to say anything, you already know. Now your partner, new to your "needs" does not. So when you take matters into your own hands and don't let her finish, yeah it'll,probably make her feel like she's not doing it good or good enough. So like in any sexual relationship, communicate with her, let her know what you like and dislike . That way she will learn, learn how you like things, and will become more satisfying, to both. Also, it should be mutually satisfying, sex shouldn't be one way.

Good luck

[jamie_n5]

Yes communicate and let her know what pleasures you.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Yep communication. Tell her how you like it

[Taryn98]

like others said, better communication

[sara___]

give her time to find out what you like. Sit back and enjoy.

[Canadian Dream]

Well, before this gets Locked what I'll say is this. When you masturbate you know what you like, and don't need to say anything, you already know. Now your partner, new to your "needs" does not. So when you take matters into your own hands and don't let her finish, yeah it'll,probably make her feel like she's not doing it good or good enough. So like in any sexual relationship, communicate with her, let her know what you like and dislike . That way she will learn, learn how you like things, and will become more satisfying, to both. Also, it should be mutually satisfying, sex shouldn't be one way.

Good luck

That and the fact that you need to try new things to figure out a way that works. You may not know what you like, so the only way to figure it out is to try different things... Otherwise there isn't much you can do about it unfortunately.

[sara___]

So I'm in a new relationship, and we've got to the blowjob/handjob stage. Issue is that when she does it, I feel little sexual pleasure. I'm only able to ejaculate after I jerk myself off and then she finishes, or the other way around - either way it involves me getting involved, which upsets her. Any way to fix this? I'm uncircumcised btw.

update?

[Salad_Baby]

update?

We managed to do it the other day :D I didn't do any work, and managed to finish - she was very pleased :)

[Zachary G]

Yes communicate and let her know what pleasures you.

I agree, you have to teach her how to make you feel good and what its going to take to get you to orgasm. Communication is the key.

[sara___]

We managed to do it the other day :D I didn't do any work, and managed to finish - she was very pleased :)

I'm glad things worked out for you.

[mike16m]

have her watch u jack off and she can learn

[Jameson9]

Well, before this gets Locked what I'll say is this. When you masturbate you know what you like, and don't need to say anything, you already know. Now your partner, new to your "needs" does not. So when you take matters into your own hands and don't let her finish, yeah it'll,probably make her feel like she's not doing it good or good enough. So like in any sexual relationship, communicate with her, let her know what you like and dislike . That way she will learn, learn how you like things, and will become more satisfying, to both. Also, it should be mutually satisfying, sex shouldn't be one way.

Good luck

Yeah. Communication is 🔑

[Poontang King117]

I'm glad things worked out for you.

Glad things worked out for you. Like everyone has said communication is very crucial to a good sex life.