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The Batman
February 24th, 2008, 06:58 PM
Usually when someone cuts the main thing we try and tell them is to find something to occupy that time instead. That might help temporarily but that urge to cut is still there. The only way to truly stop cutting and minimize the urges is to find out what exactly is triggering it, some of you might say life at home or school but there is a deeper reason why you feel you need to cut and no one knows but you.

Once you find out the reason behind it you need to go about getting rid of the problem. If its that you feel unwanted or ignored by your parents than you need to confront them and tell them how you feel. If you feel like your lonely and don't have any friends than you need to go out and find people with similar interests. Whatever the reason is face the problem head on before you seriously hurt yourself. After you face the problem find yourself a close friend that you can talk to and tell them everything and then find some more friends you can go to, in other words build yourself a support team that you can tell your problems to so you can have people to help you.

The most important part of the recovery process is to get rid of every single item in your room that you use to cut because those are the main part of the urge to cut.

If you don't stop cutting then first you'll be put in the psych ward of the hospital, which is a truly depressing place. Then you'll be put in a psychiatric hospital, after that most likely you'll end up in a coffin because by then you'll have cut to deep.

If you're scared that you'll still have the urges to cut even after these then always try and call a hotline, all of your calls will be confidential and it'll be 1 on 1 1-800-DONT-CUT right this number down somewhere and keep it with you at all times.

Atonement
February 24th, 2008, 07:17 PM
If you don't stop cutting then first you'll be put in the psych ward of the hospital, which is a truly depressing place. Then you'll be put in a psychiatric hospital, after that most likely you'll end up in a coffin because by then you'll have cut to deep.

A little extreme I think. Might be a little over dramatic.

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Besides, that great post.

Axellance
February 25th, 2008, 12:55 AM
i also think it may be just a little extreme, but it has alot of good onfo in it!

electric7rocker
February 25th, 2008, 01:27 AM
i actually dont think its that extreme... if you dont get help things just escalate. fast.

Hyper
February 25th, 2008, 11:19 AM
Well its all fine and good.. Except if you really want to do something you'll find any dirty method of doing it..

And no the last lines aren't dramatic.

Patchy
February 25th, 2008, 11:21 AM
That's gonna help a lot of people hopefully :)

its good yes its a wee bit of shock tactics in it but its really good well done for contributing that :)

Hyper
February 25th, 2008, 11:38 AM
That's gonna help a lot of people hopefully :)

its good yes its a wee bit of shock tactics in it but its really good well done for contributing that :)

It may be shocking to you or even some cutters but reality is if we tell people who cut to do something else or tell them to take their time, we are just hiding the problem, not facing it and just giving superficial comfortation.

If you praise a person if he/she has done nothing to help herself, most likely he'll/she'll feel much worse.. I know I've been depressed..

But when you praise a person when he/she knows that hes/shes earned it, well its a great thing.

Thats just my 2 cents, its a good post I don't see anything wrong with it..

Gavin
February 25th, 2008, 05:16 PM
yeah it does have some good info i hope it helps people out that have had bad times cutting and such.