Jealousy

[mutantboy]

I'm not jealous, and this doesn't mean I don't care about my girlfriend.
But I trust her, and I can't stand to say her what I like or I don't like she will do (for example going to disco or other things).
Why should I? I trust her and she can do whatever she like. And in any case, if I wouldn't trust her, she would have many occasion during the day to cheat me and I wouldn't know, no way. So why should I be so stupid to tell her not to go to disco or so?
BEsides...if someone look at my girlfriend or "appreciate" her, I am happy, because she's mine and others can just watch her...
What is you attitude?

[Flapjack]

I'm confused buddy are you jealous of her being with other guys?

[Ragle]

according to an cliche, you are supposed to be jealous cause you are italian.

btw: I'm dunno, medium jealous or whatever.

[ClaraWho]

The OP is asking if you are jealous in your relationship, and presumably trying to understand that mindset. Am I right?

I agree that you have to trust in a relationship, especially if they've never given you a reason to disprove their loyalty. You cannot make someone love you, you can only be grateful and appreciative if they do. Nobody is your possession.

~ Clara

[Flapjack]

The OP is asking if you are jealous in your relationship, and presumably trying to understand that mindset. Am I right?

I agree that you have to trust in a relationship, especially if they've never given you a reason to disprove their loyalty. You cannot make someone love you, you can only be grateful and appreciative if they do. Nobody is your possession.

~ Clara
If that is what he is asking then yeah I agree, trust is veryyyy important!:)

[jamie_n5]

Yes I think a good relationship is built on trust.

[mutantboy]

according to an cliche, you are supposed to be jealous cause you are italian.

btw: I'm dunno, medium jealous or whatever.

Maybe, but I'm not.

[Ragle]

Maybe, but I'm not.

maybe that's why you've chosen your nick. :D


tt: I think that everyone is somewhere jealous when his or her partner is flirting with others or others flirting with the partner and so.

Also, I claim, in certain situations you can't avoid responding jealousy. Simply because this is a human reaction.

Probably it is only the question of how to learn to deal with it, before heading out before others ridiculous or, in the worst case, beginning to argue etc.