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WhatAnArtist
August 1st, 2016, 08:34 AM
I started university this year with like a pathways course, which is like a four month course you do to get a better chance of getting accepted into proper university. In this course I sort of just kept to myself, but somehow I ended up having a ton of female friends (one of them being quite beautiful too, I sort of developed a crush on her) and it was great. In HS I mostly had male friends, so having all female friends and no male friends is cool with me (in fact I prefer it, since I'm attracted to girls and find I get along with them better. I'm more confident and outgoing talking to girls).

So now I've started proper classes today, and I don't know anyone there (haven't had a chance to get to know anyone yet, only had one short lecture), but already I'm like completely focussing only on making female friends (even though there are more males in my course than females), cause I'm like really intent on trying to get a girlfriend (it's pretty much the only thing that I think about now).

So is it weird that I only want to have female friends? I have one very good male friend I've known for years, but that's different cause we've known each other since we were ten. With other guys I just feel myself getting really impatient and annoyed at how they talk, what they talk about, etc. I find it much easier and more enjoyable talking to girls.

PlasmaHam
August 1st, 2016, 09:18 AM
I see nothing wrong with that. Some people get along better with guys, some with girls. I personally make friends with girls better than I do with guys. Just depends on what personality you have and what personality you like in your friends.

Jinglebottom
August 1st, 2016, 11:05 AM
If I could only say one last thing to most guys I know, it'd probably be along the lines of "Fuck you, fucking moron." That's how much I can't stand them.

WhatAnArtist
August 1st, 2016, 11:46 AM
If I could only say one last thing to most guys I know, it'd probably be along the lines of "Fuck you, fucking moron." That's how much I can't stand them.

I'm glad I can relate to someone on this.

The worst part is, for me, that I still feel this way even if logically I know they've done nothing wrong. Like, even just their very presence angers me beyond reason. It's truly bizarre, because I used to have a ton of male friends, now I hate almost every male I see (usually only the ones around my age, though).

Flapjack
August 1st, 2016, 12:52 PM
Congrats on starting uni buddy and no it is not weird at all:)

Jinglebottom
August 1st, 2016, 01:41 PM
I'm glad I can relate to someone on this.

The worst part is, for me, that I still feel this way even if logically I know they've done nothing wrong. Like, even just their very presence angers me beyond reason. It's truly bizarre, because I used to have a ton of male friends, now I hate almost every male I see (usually only the ones around my age, though).
Yeah same, they're all douches lmao. I have like 8 female friends yet only 2 male friends (the few non-cocky, non-obnoxious ones). Girls are nice and thoughtful but boys are sex-crazed brainless idiots who will bully you if you're different (in my experience).

jamie_n5
August 1st, 2016, 09:31 PM
Well it's not weird. You are just getting started and the future will tell if and whom you want to make friends with. Good luck in college man.