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mutantboy
August 1st, 2016, 08:15 AM
Have you masturbate in a strange or uncomfortable place, where ejaculating would have been a mess? In this case sometimes I have orgasm and try to "keep" semen, the same you you keep pee when you can't do it, and I am able to do it. I can have orgasm without ejaculating.
Do you ever tried it?
The strange thing is that I can masturbate again sooner than the usual time when I have orgasm with ejaculation.
Do you think this can be insane or dangerous?
Skylark
August 1st, 2016, 08:19 AM
I don't think you should keep cum in. Idk if there are any medical problems caused by it, but it doesn't sound.... healthy.
ska8er
August 1st, 2016, 09:40 AM
Have you masturbate in a strange or uncomfortable place, where ejaculating would have been a mess? In this case sometimes I have orgasm and try to "keep" semen, the same you you keep pee when you can't do it, and I am able to do it. I can have orgasm without ejaculating.
Do you ever tried it?
The strange thing is that I can masturbate again sooner than the usual time when I have orgasm with ejaculation.
Do you think this can be insane or dangerous?
This has happened to me not because I wanted
to do it but because I was masturbating and was
surprised by someone and I had to stop right when
I was about to cum-it ended up that I developed a
urinary infection. I would not advise anyone to do
this. Also the pee u take after u cum is to clean out
ur whole system down there-the reason is to not
trap bacteria to cause this infection. U hold things
in-ur asking for trouble.
zzzzzzzzzz
August 1st, 2016, 11:50 AM
Doesn't sound good. Once past the point of no return, let it out!
jamie_n5
August 1st, 2016, 04:45 PM
Well I wouldn't suggest doing that much. I am pretty sure that I could never hold mine back.
Biomicro
August 1st, 2016, 05:13 PM
Sam thing as me too but i thing not a good thing that you work out with
Canadian Dream
August 2nd, 2016, 02:10 PM
I don't really think it's a good idea to do it very often... I know what you're talking about but in theory you shouldn't be able to hold it back.
volleyballer13
August 2nd, 2016, 02:30 PM
yeah you could be at a greater risk for a urinary tract infection. i wouldnt suggest doing this. I definitely can not hold cum in.
Hermes
August 3rd, 2016, 09:48 PM
I don't think holding you cum in like that is a good idea and it isn't something I do.
I was going to say I can;t think of any time/place where you wouldn't be able to cum normally without amking a mess because you should be able to, at the least, aim into a tissue at very close range, but then I though of rubbing youself while clothed.
I do think it is worth trying to find somewhere relaxed and comfortable when you can but we all have to make do sometimes. Even then there are better places and not so good ones.
benchpress
August 4th, 2016, 02:04 AM
Not sure I understand this. How do you keep semen in?
mutantboy
August 4th, 2016, 02:07 AM
Not sure I understand this. How do you keep semen in?
Difficult to explain, especially because english is not my own language. It's like when need to pee a lot, and you can't...you keep it, more or less the same
Hermes
August 4th, 2016, 08:28 AM
Difficult to explain, especially because english is not my own language. It's like when need to pee a lot, and you can't...you keep it, more or less the same
Ok, so from that description I assume you are not apply any external pressure? If so I think I can explain what is happenning anatomically.
So, there is a tube, called the urethra, which runs from your bladder to the hole at the tip of your penis and on the way it passes through some other things. Starting at the bladder end is a sphincter, which is a ring of muscle that can close off the tube and therefore act as a valve, Let's call this the upper sphincter. This sphincter is not something you can voluntarily control. Next the urethra goes through the prostate gland. It is here that the semen goes into the urethra when you ejaculate, both directly from the prostate gland itself, and via a tube that join from the seminal vesciles and your testicles. After the prostate is another sphincter - let's call this the lower sphincter - and this one you do have voluntary control over. At the base of the penis ducts from the bulbo-urethral glands join - these are responsible for pre-cum. After that it's up the penis and out.
When nothing much is happenning, i.e. you are not peeing or cumming and don't even feel the need to pee, the upper sphincter, closest to the bladder, is closed to stop urine leaking out. When you feel the need to pee this sphincter opens. To avoid wetting yourself you have to voluntarily close the lower sphincter and this is what you learn to do as a toddler so you can delay peeing.
When you ejaculate the upper sphincter will be closed to keep the semen and urine apart. Even if it is closed at the start, and I don't know it it is, by the time the semen is spurting out the lower sphincter must be open as this is how the semen gets from the part of the urethra that runs through the prostate gland to the part that leads out of the penis. Muscular contractions then squeeze the urethra to push the semen along and out. Remember this sphincter is voluntarily controlled so what mutantboy is doing is holding it closed until the muscular contractions have stopped and the reason it feels similar to holding in pee is because it is the same muscle doing the work.
Clearly keeping this lower sphincter closed is effective at stopping the semen finding its way out, at least at that time, but it isn't going to stop the prostate, seminal vesicals and the tube up from the testicles trying to add their contributions to the semen gathering in the part of the urethra that runs through the prostate gland, between the two sphincters. To start with they will suceed but sooner or later that part of the urethra will be full and the pressure will start to increae. This can either prevent the glands concerned from fully emptying, which explains why the orgasm doesn't seem as "final" as normal, force some semen back past the upper sphincter into the bladder, or both. It also means that the semen left trapped between those two sphincters will come out later, probably next time you pee as the pee will push it along.
As I said earlier, I am not sure subjecting your system to this is a particularly good idea. Remember also that feeling the semen travelling along the urethra is a pleasant sensation that is part of the normal experience of cumming. Finally, if you're horny and are masturbating in part to get relief from being horny so you can concentrate on something else then it doesn't really work if the orgasm doesn't feel "final" and you feel like you need to do it again.
I think the best orgasms happen when you're not worrying about aim because your penis natually points somewhere that won't cause a problem, like your chest/stomach, a hard surface that can be easily wiped, a large towel you've spread out, in the shower etc. If you can't arrange that, though, then it is preferable to just have something close by to aim into that will catch it, like some tissue, a cup, your hand, the underwear you have taken off, a small towel etc. That's bound to feel better than keeping it in.
Finally, while disucssing that bit of the anatomy, if you've ever wondered why you can't pee while close to cumming or for a minute or so afterwards, it is because as you get ready to cum the ejaculation reflex has taken over control of that upper sphincter from the bladder reflex in order to make sure it stays closed and keeps the urine out of the semen. Once it relinquishes control you can pee again.
HANDsum
August 4th, 2016, 10:31 PM
I can have intentional dry orgasms and theyre fucken crazy gooood;) but I do it when I edge... you can train yourself to cum without shooting and the more you learn to do that the bigger and more powerful the wet cum will be. Learn to edge bro!!!
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