is this weird?

[weeb]

i have been messaging a girl online. i met her through a group chat with other online friends. i have never seen her before, in pictures or in real life, and i dont even know her first name. (i know her age however, she's the same age as me) but i feel a connection to her. it's sort of hard to explain, but i look forward to talking to her everyday. her messages make me very happy and i would love to pursue a relationship with her, despite not knowing her all that well. we have a lot of the same interests and hobbies and we joke around a lot, saying "ily" and "bby" and she calls me her, well excuse my language, "fuckbuddy". lmao. i feel as if i have the best chemistry with her out of all of my online friends.

i was wondering if that's weird, not knowing much about her and wanting to date her. if she hit me up the next day asking me out i would immediately say yes.

thanks for reading.

[Meron]

You are at the risk of being catfished, fooled, or worse. I suggest you start getting to know a person before having feelings for them.

[Flapjack]

You are at the risk of being catfished, fooled, or worse. I suggest you start getting to know a person before having feelings for them.
If we humans could control who we had feelings for the world would be a better placeXD
i have been messaging a girl online. i met her through a group chat with other online friends. i have never seen her before, in pictures or in real life, and i dont even know her first name. (i know her age however, she's the same age as me) but i feel a connection to her. it's sort of hard to explain, but i look forward to talking to her everyday. her messages make me very happy and i would love to pursue a relationship with her, despite not knowing her all that well. we have a lot of the same interests and hobbies and we joke around a lot, saying "ily" and "bby" and she calls me her, well excuse my language, "fuckbuddy". lmao. i feel as if i have the best chemistry with her out of all of my online friends.

i was wondering if that's weird, not knowing much about her and wanting to date her. if she hit me up the next day asking me out i would immediately say yes.

thanks for reading.
No it is no weird buddy!! She seems really nice buddy although I would say stay friends until you can prove she's real:)

[Just JT]

I think it's great you have someone you feel have that kind of closeness with someone. And I think it's also really good to know someone really good before you have a sexual relationship, like you've done. (Should follow my own advise lol). Anyways, that I think leads to a better quality relationship.

BUUUT.....your talking about someone you meet on line, don't know her name, how she looks, so basically, you don't even know if she's even being truthful or if she's who she claims she is, and your ready to jump into the sack with her on next call?

That's not a good idea at all.... IF....IF you meet her at all, meet in a public place, bring someone with you, and have a known plan of something to do that's in public, to get to know each other more. Nothing more, nothing less. I'd proceed, MAYBE, maybe, but with extreme caution

[Phosphene]

It's not weird. Everything I would have said was pretty much already covered, but just be cautious and make sure she is who she says she is before pursuing anything.

[bandofbros20]

I've met some nice girls online but I wouldn't say bank on that. She might be very nice or she might not be who she is. From personal expirence, it's very easy to become obsessed with a girl, especially online, when you don't know much about them and your imagination runs wild. I'd say it might be worth pursuing with caution but be prepared for the reality that she may not be the perfect girl you are imagining

[weeb]

hm. yeah, i completely understand where you all are coming from...
thanks all for the warnings. i will be more careful.

[jamie_n5]

I think it's great you have someone you feel have that kind of closeness with someone. And I think it's also really good to know someone really good before you have a sexual relationship, like you've done. (Should follow my own advise lol). Anyways, that I think leads to a better quality relationship.

BUUUT.....your talking about someone you meet on line, don't know her name, how she looks, so basically, you don't even know if she's even being truthful or if she's who she claims she is, and your ready to jump into the sack with her on next call?

That's not a good idea at all.... IF....IF you meet her at all, meet in a public place, bring someone with you, and have a known plan of something to do that's in public, to get to know each other more. Nothing more, nothing less. I'd proceed, MAYBE, maybe, but with extreme caution

I am with JT on this one.

[lemondrop]

it's not weird,but kinda dangerous ,if you have plans to meet her ,ask her's snap or skype and tell her to show a face or smth like that, always think twice ;) And don't let your emotions control you in situation like this

[Cadanance00]

I think people have a tendency to imagine that other people don't really know have traits that they wish they had, like the perfect person syndrome. So you put her on a pedestal. Don't be that disappointed when she falls off it. She was never really on it in the first place.

[kyrocks03]

i have never seen her before, in pictures or in real life, and i dont even know her first name.

and she calls me her, well excuse my language, "fuckbuddy". lmao. i feel as if i have the best chemistry with her out of all of my online friends.

i was wondering if that's weird, not knowing much about her and wanting to date her. if she hit me up the next day asking me out i would immediately say yes.

thanks for reading.

I'll just go ahead and throw up a gigantic RED LIGHT here! You don't know "her" name nor have you seen pictures of seen her on a web camera. "She" could be a predator. The fact that this person calls you a fuckbuddy and you don't have basic information on "her" is more than slightly concerning to me.

I'd be careful. I'm all for chatting with kids with common interests but when they don't provide information and the conversation is nothing but sexual I think there are major redflags. Maybe I'm just paranoid though!