Losing virginity?

[Remora]

Guys, girls, do you consider beeing done anal/doing anal as losing your virginity?

[Lune]

It depends on your definition of "losing your virginity"
If it's making love, or just penetration : yes.
If it's when the hymen "break" (in fact it does not break, it gets stretched out, but anyway) : no.

Personally I don't have a real opinion about that, I suppose it doesn't matter a lot to me.

[maddogmj77]

I would say no.

[NotShortButFunsized]

I think its possible depending on your beliefs. It's called anal sex or oral sex. It's right in the name that doing it is having sex, so if your definition of virginity is stricter I say it should count

[ninja789]

I would say so

[chrisjenkins]

Yeah sure.

[Swagging god]

Yes I consider first time penetration of the vagina or anus by a penis constitues losing your virginity?

[AlexOnToast]

Technically, no.
But by all other accounts, yes.

[Ben101]

I'd say so

[Elysium]

Up to the individual to define what virginity means to them.

[KellyNC]

Up to the individual to define what virginity means to them.

I think this is accurate, although I think anyone who only anal because they're saving their saving their virginity (vaginal, by their definition) for marriage is being awfully silly.

[reger]

Yes for sure.

[Karkat]

Up to the individual to define what virginity means to them.

Absolutely agree with this one. I mean obviously gay guys have no other way of penetrative sex, and lesbians don't have penetrative parts, so virginity would have to be different for them as well.

I mean, losing your virginity shouldn't be exclusive to straight people. Just like it shouldn't have to be an important thing if someone doesn't want it to be. Everyone takes sex in different regard as to what it means to them.

I think this is accurate, although I think anyone who only anal because they're saving their saving their virginity (vaginal, by their definition) for marriage is being awfully silly.

Ah, same. There is a difference, but not much, and though the possibility for STDs is definitely lowered, as well as the pregnancy risk...It can still happen if you're not careful enough. Is it unlikely? Yes. Is it kind of cheating your husband if you have done it and you don't tell him about it? 100% absolutely. You shouldn't keep that from someone you're going to spend your life with- for health and trust reasons if nothing else.

[Snowfall]

Personally I'd go with it doesn't but it's fair to assume it does count as losing your virginity. Well it's everyone's choice to decide if it does or not count for them.

[NeuroTiger]

I opine that it is a form of losing virginity.

[phuckphace]

yes of course it counts as losing your virginity. Sex is sex.

[Dwemer]

I would say so but its up to each person or couple to decide that.

[phuckphace]

it isn't "up to" anyone to define anything. Being a virgin means you've never had sex. Putting a penis into an orifice for the purpose of sexual pleasure ending in ejaculation is sex. And that's exactly what anal sex is. Not that difficult to understand.

[phuckphace]

Or a mouth?

yes I think oral sex counts too

[phuckphace]

Then I'm not a virgin. Yay. :)

you're welcome. giggity

[Danagal]

Very good question. I'll say yes.

[benchpress]

i consider anal to be sex but not oral

[Boar]

I do.