Best Friend Dilema

[owl__city]

Recently I had a sleepover at my best friend's house. His parents were out on a trip for a week and it was only the two of us alone. By the time it was pretty late he suggested that we watch some porn, it's not the first time for me to jerk off with my friends (or him) so I didn't care much. After a while he asked me if he can jerk me off. I wasn't really ready for that but I did let him to jerk me off a bit and it was kinda awesome, however I don't think I'm gay but now I'm getting the feeling that he is.

What should I do?
Did something like that ever happened to you? if Yes, i'd like to know more about what happened and how'd you deal with it.
Thanks! :D

[Biomicro]

Nope but its normal to get your friend or you gets horny and jerk each other off

[Just JT]

Well, why do you think you need to "do" anything about it?
Yeah similar stuff has happened with me, but wouldn't really be appropriate to share those here now.
I felt fine with it

See, a lota times guys question their sexuality when something like this happens. Reality is, you don't need to, unless you choose to. Guys do this, and more sometimes, when their all tuned up and horny from watching porn or whatever, and get curious. Don't mean you, or him is gay bi or what ever. But also might be that you/him might be. Kinda early to tell tbh.

Seemed like you enjoyed it, was probably your first time letting someone give you a HJ, so yeah, if it bothers you, maybe don't do it again. You never know if yiur guna like something till you try it. But also, might open some new doors for you and your friendship with him, maybe others to. Nobody got hurt, enjoyed it, roll with it. See where it goes. Unles it's "bothering" you.

[ska8er]

U should continue to b friends and don't
question it-hes ur friend and so what if
u think he is gay-probably just curious.

[pjones]

U should continue to b friends and don't
question it-hes ur friend and so what if
u think he is gay-probably just curious.

this is good advice. your or his sexuality shouldn't mean anything to your friendship. i've masturbated lots of times with my friends, and most of them are straight and one has a steady girlfriend, we're just having fun.

[Flapjack]

You get the feeling he isXD I am pretty sure he is bi or gay or curious or whatever but he likes menXD If you feel uncomfortable tell him not to.

[jamie_n5]

He is probably just curious like you. He may be gay too but either way you are just experimenting. if he were to start kissing you or wanting to make out that would be more of a sign he is gay. Then you would politely say no I am not into that so please don't do it again. Guys experimenting will even give each other blowjobs so I wouldn't worry about jerking each other off.

[Canadian Dream]

It's sort of hard to tell another person's sexuality just by looking or observing their actions, especially during puberty but it's possible that he is. I would suggest not bringing it up however in fear he might react badly about it. If he wants to come out to anyone (if he is in fact gay) he will do it by himself. However wanting to experiment is often just a temporary feeling that most guys feel during puberty and don't forget to keep that in mind.

[NZPerson]

Invited for a sleep over when the parents are away? That just screams experimenting to me haha kinda shoulda expected it

[zzzzzzzzzz]

He may just want to experiment. He may want to take it further. Don't worry about labeling yourself. Do think on how far you would and wouldn't do, and let him know. Then enjoy

[Dave2u]

He is likely bi curious and with you being a close friend he felt it safe to ask you.
Before I started dating a couple of my friends and I did stuff like this and I do not feel gay.
Treat him like it did not happen and see if he brings it up, if you liked it that is okay, it does not mean you are gay or even bi, you were just horney.

[hairy balls]

He is probably just curious like you. Guys experimenting will give each other blowjobs so I wouldn't worry about jerking each other off.

[mutantboy]

Recently I had a sleepover at my best friend's house. His parents were out on a trip for a week and it was only the two of us alone. By the time it was pretty late he suggested that we watch some porn, it's not the first time for me to jerk off with my friends (or him) so I didn't care much. After a while he asked me if he can jerk me off. I wasn't really ready for that but I did let him to jerk me off a bit and it was kinda awesome, however I don't think I'm gay but now I'm getting the feeling that he is.

What should I do?
Did something like that ever happened to you? if Yes, i'd like to know more about what happened and how'd you deal with it.
Thanks! :D

I think it's just a normal experimentation at this stage, and not an indication of your sexual direction

[ashdyn]

Just go with it, do what you're comfortable with, then if he happens to be gay continue being a good friend lol

It's really not that big of a deal. Him being gay wouldn't magically change what y'all are doing from experimentation to gay or anything like that. If anything it might turn out better for you...free handies or blowies and you probably won't have to reciprocate lol

[ValentinClarke]

Recently I had a sleepover at my best friend's house. His parents were out on a trip for a week and it was only the two of us alone. By the time it was pretty late he suggested that we watch some porn, it's not the first time for me to jerk off with my friends (or him) so I didn't care much. After a while he asked me if he can jerk me off. I wasn't really ready for that but I did let him to jerk me off a bit and it was kinda awesome, however I don't think I'm gay but now I'm getting the feeling that he is.

What should I do?
Did something like that ever happened to you? if Yes, i'd like to know more about what happened and how'd you deal with it.
Thanks! :D
Hey don't worry bout it, experimenting is always good, only if all parties consent to it. It's good that you're finding more about yourself, it's personal growth :)

[Bull]

He may just want to experiment. He may want to take it further. Don't worry about labeling yourself. Do think on how far you would and wouldn't do, and let him know. Then enjoy

Experimenting can be fun, but you do need to decide your personal boundaries. Once you do you should be more comfortable with the whole idea of mutual enjoyment and satisfaction. Two guys helping each other does not necessarily determine long range sexuality. Reject labeling while experimenting, just enjoy the feeling of satisfaction.

[Niceguy17]

it's completely normal if you jerk each other in a session like that, it's not gay.

[loki2000]

Sounds like you enjoyed your friend jerking you... Have fun with it . Don`t over think it with worrying about being gay..... Very normal for friends to get into stuff like that... You would be surprised just how many guys beat each other off that are not gay. If you both like jerking each other... Just keep doing it.. I started messing around with couple of my friends while back...and still do it now...One started at a sleep over... Were all very ok with it..and have fun with it .

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