Experimenting?

[theawkwardteen]

Recently my best friend asked if we could experiment with each other the next time he came over my house. I said sure but when he came over he snuck condoms with him. He said that he wanted to have sex. I wasn't expecting that but I told him to wait bc I thought we would just jerk off together or something. What should I do? I am interested in having sex but I don't want my first time to be with 1. My best friend and 2. A boy

[Just JT]

Everyone's different, so everyone would respond somewhat differently. The important thing is you didn't do anything you weren't comfortable with. It's good you know what you wana do, and stick with it. It's also good your friend knows what he wants. In the end you both should have fun and don't do anything that crosses anyone's line

Good job bro

Me, I wouldn't have sex with him either, I'm in a relationship, but I'd feel off with him no prob...

[Biomicro]

Just accepted it cuz everyone need to have a enjoy part

[owl__city]

Well I think you should ask yourself if it's something you are willing to do. if not than you should let him down easily. If you're up for let's say not "sex sex" but maybe a bj you should let yourself experience that. I think that anal is just a level too high for now.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Recently my best friend asked if we could experiment with each other the next time he came over my house. I said sure but when he came over he snuck condoms with him. He said that he wanted to have sex. I wasn't expecting that but I told him to wait bc I thought we would just jerk off together or something. What should I do? I am interested in having sex but I don't want my first time to be with 1. My best friend and 2. A boy

I'd love to have a best friend to experiment with. If he is as good as that he would understand. Did either of you end up doing anything? And only as far as you wanted to?

[ska8er]

Just tell him ur curious to experiment
but not ready for anything else-if he is
a good friend he will accept ur feelings.

[Falcons_11]

Don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable about doing. It's cool that you want to experiment but make sure you call the shots. Don't do anything that you will regret later. It's all about you and never about anyone else.

[pjones]

don't do anything you don't want to. if saving your first intercourse is important to you, and sounds like it is, then tell him you're not doing that. nothing wrong with experimenting by masturbating or giving each other oral sex. go as far as you're comfortable with even if that means doing nothing.

[Flapjack]

If you're not comfortable then don't do it! There is no rush:)

[Canadian Dream]

That was the right thing to say. If you're not ready to have sex with a guy and don't want to you have to make that clear to him. He should in theory be ok with starting off by just jerking. Don't let him control the way you feel towards sex because it's all up to you.

[hairy balls]

Just tell him ur curious to experiment
but not ready for anything else-if he is
a good friend he will accept ur feelings.
what you said to him was the right thing to say.
If you're not ready to have sex with a guy and don't want to
you must make that clear to him.
if he doesn't accept it then he is not a real friend
and is only wanting to use you.