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jdm212
February 18th, 2014, 01:56 AM
A while ago I experimented with a friend and we had fun, but afterward it was awkward. I want to do it again and I think he does but i'm not sure. What should I do, if i should try again how do I approach the situation?
isaiah
February 18th, 2014, 01:59 AM
it depends what did yall do together
Remora
February 18th, 2014, 02:00 AM
Depends on how he behaved when you guys were experimenting.
It's awkward anyways so why wouldn't you just ask him? That's the attitude i had toward the guy i experimented with. I chose him on purpose because i knew i could trust him but at the same time knew we wouldn't see eachother anymore, he was an old friend.
Gamma Male
February 18th, 2014, 02:05 AM
If you both enjoy it, certainly! And as for how to go about it, try inviting him over to "play videogames" when your parents are out and then asking him if he'd be open to trying stuff. Make sure you're both comfortable with what's going on though. Wouldn't want to mess up your friendship.
DarkHorse4eva
February 18th, 2014, 02:06 AM
If you liked it and feel ready to do it, then you should do it again
Remora
February 18th, 2014, 02:10 AM
If you liked it and feel ready to do it, then you should do it again

The point he made is that he wanted to do it again, but he wasn't sure if his friend returned the favor.

But yeah, IF you feel ready to do it and as already mentioned many times, liked it, you should definitely ask him. One way or another.
Brown13
February 18th, 2014, 04:25 PM
go for whatever you feel most comfortable doing. whether it is just asking him flat out or inviting him over and making the situation, you can make it work im sure. good luck with whatever happens :)
noplanhere9
February 18th, 2014, 04:28 PM
Try bringing it up, and if he gets weird about it, don't bring it up again. If he wants to try, then it will happen.
Luke91
February 18th, 2014, 08:29 PM
If you want to again and you think he does too, then make some lite joke and see how he reacts. If he takes the bate then go for it. He might be wanting the same thing like you and he could be thinking how he could bring it up to you.
Andrew2499
February 19th, 2014, 12:04 AM
If you both liked it do it again. I like experimenting with guys.
MarkoSt
February 19th, 2014, 02:07 AM
In my opinion you should experiment because you should figure out what makes you happy or in other words whatever gets you going! pm me
ksdnfkfr
February 19th, 2014, 02:50 AM
Experimenting is about a special bonding with a very close friend and having fun.
It really should never be something that has to be planned out or something you try to get your friend to do. If you are both very close to each other, 100% comfortable with each other and 100% trusting of each other - and both want to, then it will happen and it should be fantastic.
Collins1
February 19th, 2014, 03:24 AM
If you both want to do it again, then go for it.
AlexOnToast
February 19th, 2014, 08:13 AM
So long as you are both comfortable, and nobody has any bad feeling, then it's all G.
chrisjenkins
February 19th, 2014, 09:01 AM
If you both enjoyed it then go for it.
jpm347
February 19th, 2014, 11:20 AM
go for it
Fanta_Lover44
February 19th, 2014, 11:53 AM
If you both feel good about it then just ask.
Fireangel
February 19th, 2014, 12:12 PM
A while ago I experimented with a friend and we had fun, but afterward it was awkward. I want to do it again and I think he does but i'm not sure. What should I do, if i should try again how do I approach the situation?

Don't worry, If you both enjoy it, go for it. Just ask him to do it again. How old are you?
Ben101
February 19th, 2014, 04:10 PM
I'd just come straight out with it, and ask :p
ChrisFromKY
February 19th, 2014, 05:20 PM
Normal feel awkward after the first time. If he's a good friend you need too talk to him about it and ask him how he feels about it now. He may be wanting to do it again too.
deregisterme
February 19th, 2014, 05:41 PM
A while ago I experimented with a friend and we had fun, but afterward it was awkward. I want to do it again and I think he does but i'm not sure. What should I do, if i should try again how do I approach the situation?

Just bring it up informally. See if he does want to do anything, and how far he would go. Then take it from there...
awesomeness14
February 23rd, 2014, 03:09 PM
Just ask him.
Moneyman12
February 23rd, 2014, 03:12 PM
Yes I wish I hade some one to do it with
Mastretta
February 23rd, 2014, 09:54 PM
If you want and just say "Ay... We f-cking or what?" But the akward part I guess that's normal
tom17
February 23rd, 2014, 10:26 PM
If you're sure he wants to do it again, go for it. If you guys are ok with that and feel happy and comfortable you don't have to worry about a thing.