Relationship

[rioo]

I sleep with girl yesterday, we are fwb . But it makes me sad to realized that my relationship is actually sucks. I never have problem asking someone out for date or that things, and never have problem in friendship but my relationship is just never going well. I've been relationship with girl and guy. I still texting with my ex bf and also my ex gf is fine.
I just really hate drama and afraid that things. I have something mentality problem to trusting people.

[Flapjack]

I'm confused, do you want to date this girl?

[rioo]

I'm confused, do you want to date this girl?

I don't know. She ever told me that she have someone but she is also not openly with me.
About my ex bf, he is nice guy and he dating with girl now.

[yeehaw]

Like Mimikyu said, what are your intentions with this girl? Do you want to date or do you just want to stay as friends with benefits?

[Just JT]

Like Mimikyu said, what are your intentions with this girl? Do you want to date or do you just want to stay as friends with benefits?

I think that's what the OP is struggling with if I'm reading this righ

[rioo]

I think that's what the OP is struggling with if I'm reading this righ

thanks.
I always confused with theres option.

[Just JT]

It may be your trust issues are getting in the way. It's hard I know, but if you want a friendship, or a physical/sexual relationship to develop, your guna have to get past that and trust people on a different level. People know of you don't trust them, is like a sense, they feel it. So they'll know when your not being genine

[ClaraWho]

Okay, so the OP's English is as good as my German xD.

If I'm reading this right then here;

You have a friend who you have casual meaningless sex with, except you have realised how shallow and unfulfilling in the long-term this is, because you aren't partners. She has a boyfriend, and despite keeping in contact with your ex partners, you aren't really interested in dating them.

Am I right?

You won't find the answers to your trust issues by adding on. That's what we do when we don't want to confront our insecurities, fears or problems. We add on.

You need to end the sexual relationship you have with her. She has a boyfriend whom I assume doesn't know you are helping her cheat on him. Do you want to be like that as a person? Does that make you feel proud?

It sounds like you need to just draw a line and start again. Wipe the slate clean.

Take some time to look at why you have trust issues, maybe speak to a therapist if you can afford it. If not look up YouTube and Google self-help articles. Take ownership of your own wellbeing instead of trying to get a mock girlfriend to try to fix you.

It's going to take a few months or so to find yourself, but it's better sooner than later. I wish you well and remember you have this forum for advice too.

Good Luck,

~ Clara

[jamie_n5]

You are sleeping with this one girl and still liking your ex GF is that it? You don't know if you should stay with the present girl or go back with your ex? Was the break up with your ex a bad one? Did she break up with you or you with her? If she broke it off then it's over but if you did and want her back you need to go apologize to her and ask her if she will take you back. I hope that I understood you right man.