Can not get hard

[heylo]

Hey. When I have sex or I'm horny I can't get fully hard. It's almost the same as the soft (I'm a shower), only a bit harder but not fully hard. I have always been like that. I've heard that men who are big most of the times can't get fully hard. So is it because I'm big or is it something else?

[ska8er]

Maybe ur too concerned that u r big
and its casing u to think that u don't
get hard enough-if u don't have any
other prob when u have sex or get off
then don't worry bout it.

[heylo]

Maybe ur too concerned that u r big
and its casing u to think that u don't
get hard enough-if u don't have any
other prob when u have sex or get off
then don't worry bout it.

No, it's just not hard, it's not like the normal hard in porn (as an example)

[Just JT]

Do you get hard when you masturbate?

[heylo]

Do you get hard when you masturbate?
No. Never fully hard

[Just JT]

Is it about the same as when you have sex?

[heylo]

Is it about the same as when you have sex?

Always the same

[Just JT]

The. I think it's probably just how you are is all. Like you said earlier, sometimes showers don't get all that hard. But the main thing is that you and your partner are able to orgasm in sex. Sounds like you both are. But also, you could talk to your doctor about it to. There could be something medically going on we don't know about

[Dalcourt]

Well if you really think something is wrong and doesn't work as it should you should probably see a doctor about it.

If you sex life works it seems to be at least nothing too serious.

And don't compare yourself to what you see in porn movies..its mainly just fantasy.

[Just JT]

Also there could be stuff, stressors in your life you don't even realize right now, stuff bothering you, sleep, diet, exercise, a shit ton of stuff that could impact this.

[jamie_n5]

If you are as big as you say you are then you are hard. I have seen porn stars with big penis' and they still hang down and look not fully hard. They have to actually place their penis into the vagina or rectum of who they are having sex with cause it isn't stiff hard. You have the plague of the very large penis my friend. You do get orgasm's don't you?

[volleyballer13]

If you are as big as you say you are then you are hard. I have seen porn stars with big penis' and they still hang down and look not fully hard. They have to actually place their penis into the vagina or rectum of who they are having sex with cause it isn't stiff hard. You have the plague of the very large penis my friend. You do get orgasm's don't you?

Yeah i agree here

[Zachary G]

If you are as big as you say you are then you are hard. I have seen porn stars with big penis' and they still hang down and look not fully hard. They have to actually place their penis into the vagina or rectum of who they are having sex with cause it isn't stiff hard. You have the plague of the very large penis my friend. You do get orgasm's don't you?

My thoughts exactly. You do have orgasms still, right?

[Biomicro]

Like other said and your are shower and when you woke up u get fully hard ?

[heylo]

Like other said and your are shower and when you woke up u get fully hard ?

No, it's never fully hard

[Vermilion]

If you are really concerned about it speak to your Dr but like others have said if you are that big and if you can still shoot don't worry

[heylo]

If you are really concerned about it speak to your Dr but like others have said if you are that big and if you can still shoot don't worry

Yeah, I can still shoot, but I was worried that I'm not so hard, I guess it's normal for the bigger ones

[Vermilion]

Yeah, I can still shoot, but I was worried that I'm not so hard, I guess it's normal for the bigger ones

No harm checking with your Dr :)