sticky situation

[jesusgavemewings]

soo i caught my mom with my uncle (from my dads side)
i dont know what to do. i thought their relationship was ok but apearantly not. i dont know if i should confront my mom and tell what i saw or my dad i would feel so bad if i broke them up they have a lot of kids together (including me) and it would be bad for them

[Just JT]

That is pretty difficult. Parents and sex stuff is really complicated. I think I'd just sti back a bit and see what happens. You never know your rents sexual relationship. And if you jump the gun....idk, might be awkward, but if you know somethings up....idk

[WhoWhatWhen]

I would stay out of it. It's your parents relationship, not yours.

[Dalcourt]

I'd say your Mom is old enough to know what she does.
So why would you get involved? If she wants another guy she will tell your Dad sooner or later, or he will find out on his own...o if not why isn't your Mom allowed some fun?
Or maybe they look alike and she just mixex them up...just joking but a women from my neighborhood actually said this as an excuse to her husband.

[jamie_n5]

I am sure that you feel so hurt, sad, upset and confused right now. I agree with the others I think you should stay back from it for now and see what happens. I am so sorry for you man you must feel just awful. Hang in there and be strong and try not let it bother you so much.

[Skylark]

I would say just hang back, but if your dad finds out that you knew about it and you didn't tell him, that might further alienate you from him. Idk wha to do otherwise though.

[Flapjack]

This a difficult one buddy! When my parents split up I didn't take a side but I can understand if you want to:) I think the right thing to do would be to tell your dad and hopefully they sort their marriage out:)

[jesusgavemewings]

my dad found out i knew and kicked me and my mom out of the house. ive been living with a friend since. dont know what happened to my mom or even if i can come back.

[Croconaw]

I'm sorry to hear that! I'm happy your friend is letting you stay with him, though. :)

[jamie_n5]

OMG I am so sorry. I hope that you and your mom can get back together and that your dad doesn't hold anything against you. You have done absolutely nothing wrong.