I haven't had a gf yet...

[Brightwolf]

So I just turned 18 a few days ago and I haven't had a girlfriend at all. Is that ok? It kinda makes me feel like I'm not cute/handsome. I've had crushes and I've tried to get a date but other guys always end up asking them before I can gather the courage to do so. Does anyone have any advice?

[Just JT]

Advise?
Sounds like the confidence thing might be the issue?
Tbh, imo, your cute, but I'm not what your probably looking for lol!!
Honestly though, just relax, just be yourself, it's not a time table or anything
People really wana know the real you, so if your trying to hard, it might be showing some how. When the right girl comes along, it'll all just kinda happen I think

Might wana think about some other posts, and how legit they are to^^

[rioo]

I think it's just problem with your confidence. The big step is how to get it up to close relationship and dating. If this about competition with other boys then you should take ask the girl first but with a plan for sure. I've been there and I do learn it. Don't be sad because everybody is always need a time to learn. Keep it up.

[BlackParadePixie]

there's nothing wrong with still being single. Most people find someone in their own time. You just need to stay confident and be yourself! You're 18, if you're going to college...I think there will be alot more opportunity for you to meet girls there!

[Typhlosion]

What JT said ^

Confidence helps. But sometimes relationships happen for the least expected reasons, whether you are or not good looking. I only got into my first physical (not online) relationship almost at the age of 19, and that's okay. Be yourself and don't need to rush it just for the sake of the relationship status. And IMO, from your avatar, you are good looking too ;)

[PlasmaHam]

Perfectly fine! I myself is 17, never had a real girlfriend in terms of a dating relationship. I've had a few good friendships with girls, I just never felt like pursuing a romantic relationship with them. Just wait, someone will come along that will be perfect for you. My best tip is to just be yourself, they know when you are faking it. If being outgoing is not your thing, then don't be outgoing. There is someone for everyone.

Good things come to those who wait.;)

[Dalcourt]

Well I don't think there's a certain date or age at which you should have had your first girlfriend.
It's different for everyone. I'm sure when you meet he right person you will find the courage to talk to her, ask her out etc.
Just don't force yourself to have a girlfriend just because everyone has. It won't give you the good experience it should be to have found That person.
So just stay true to yourself and you'll be fine in the long run.

[ska8er]

There is nothing wrong with ur looks so
get that off ur mind-Is it Ok that u don't
have a girlfriend?-No but it is not the end
of the world-when u meet a girl or girls
that u may b interested in smile say Hi
and b urself and then lasso them before
someone else pulls them in-u may have
a prob with self confidence that maybe u
r not good enough for a girlfriend which is
a stupid idea-I'm sure any girl would like to
have u for a steady.

[jamie_n5]

Well first of all looking at your picture you are a very handsome guy so no worries there. It is no big deal that you haven't dated yet. I presume that you have been enjoying life and have friends that you do things with and have been having fun in your high school years. You will spot a girl you like and then you will ask her out and start your dating sometime soon I'll bet. You are fine my friend and good luck to you.

[Flapjack]

So I just turned 18 a few days ago and I haven't had a girlfriend at all. Is that ok? It kinda makes me feel like I'm not cute/handsome. I've had crushes and I've tried to get a date but other guys always end up asking them before I can gather the courage to do so. Does anyone have any advice?
It can be hard for a gay guy to find a date as often there are not many other gay guys! I'd chill out buddyy there's no rush:)