Getting noticed by females

[bandofbros20]

So... I've been on two dates in my entire life. One was valentines with a friend and one was with this girl who I have liked since like 5th grade and still do. We went on one date that seemed to go well and at the end I was like let's so it again sometime and she said yes. So for the next like 3 months I would ask her out and she would be busy. But after 3 months I just kinda stopped because she seeme to have no motivation or hang out with me. I'm not in great physical shape but I would like to think that I'm one of the better guys to date at 16/17 as far as emotionally and maturity goes. So my question to girls is does physical shape really matter a lot? Or what could I do to stand out in this girl's mind? I'm working on getting in better shape because I plan to go into the marines after high school so I guess my overall question is how can I gets this girls attention. And does the physical shape of a guy really matter? Like if he's overweight or something.

[jesusgavemewings]

yes you need to have abs to get abs or else the girls run away cause having no muscle is liek eating to much cake youre all big and flabby and you cant flex

[Just JT]

Don't believe this ^^
I'm not a girl ok, but it's not like that at all, people are people, and it takes all kinds. If someone is liking you cause of how you look and not for who you are, then fuck them, their loss.

It's not just about boy/girl relationships to. It's true for life, and people will judge you for any reason, so do t get all hung up on what ever detail

But, my foster dad was in the army. He's told me one time that if someone wants to go in the military, the better shape they are in the better basic will be. So I'd start early, think the marines are pretty tough guys right?

[Sailor Mars]

Like JT said, there's all types of people that like different things when looking for a partner. Some may look for bigger guys, some may not find that attractive. If you're healthy and content with your weight, then don't change it for someone. If you, however, want to personally get in better physical shape on your own, then do that. It's all your choice man :) it's your body, and you shouldn't change it for others, only yourself.

[Desynchronized]

Every single girl has different personalities and preferences and someone here said you need abs to get a girls attention its completely wrong. Ya physical shape matters a bit but its far from majority. Like if you are very chubby and fat girls would tend to prefer you less. But if you are just fit and nothing too incredible you will be fine. Doing workouts to get a better shape for marines is great unless you are doing it for getting girls attention.

[Skylark]

Let's face facts, a lot of girls like fit guys, but when you find someone who is actually the right person, they'll like you for your personality.

[jamie_n5]

:what:This is rather amusing. He is asking for the ladies opinions and is getting all these guys comments and only one gals.

[Just JT]

Jamie_n lols!!! Yeah, I just noticed that to when you said that haha!!:/

[City Kid]

Puberty for All :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[bandofbros20]

Don't believe this ^^
I'm not a girl ok, but it's not like that at all, people are people, and it takes all kinds. If someone is liking you cause of how you look and not for who you are, then fuck them, their loss.

It's not just about boy/girl relationships to. It's true for life, and people will judge you for any reason, so do t get all hung up on what ever detail

But, my foster dad was in the army. He's told me one time that if someone wants to go in the military, the better shape they are in the better basic will be. So I'd start early, think the marines are pretty tough guys right?

The toughest of the tough. The only branch that takes any work to get into anymore. My local drill sargeqnts have me on a meal and workout plan. And I've got two years to get ripped as fuck.

[indoxyl]

Look, you can't make a girl like you. If she doesn't like you then leave it alone. Find some other girl.