Help with lesbian/bi-ex?

[kittycat72]

Ok, let me first say I'm sorry if I take this very stupidly or anything, but really it's among really the first time I have to deal with a odd situation like this. OKK so going into my help needed (sorry if I posted in the wrong category)

So I have a ex-girlfriend who used to go out with me (I'm a guy) and we used to be pretty ok, and then she suddenly dumped me really nicely, and to which a year later I found out was because she found out she liked girls. I asked her recently if she still didn't like boys and she seemed questionably to say yes, but she's been acting awfully in the sense that she still likes me but maybe I'm just getting false signals (I understand it could be just her trying to be friendly but it sorta almost seems more). Is there any nice way to find out if I have a chance with her? Or even anything really, it doesn't have to be full blown relationship. Or maybe I'm just really desperate ;< THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR HELPPP

[jesusgavemewings]

you sound desperate so you should leave her alone or send her food or flowers that say

do you liek me?

then if she sends something back you know she does.
you should get an instagram and post ab pics cause all girls love abs even ones who love girls (it ok to like girls if you are a girl, no ooffence)

put the instagram on the card when you send it to her so she can look at your abs

[Sailor Mars]

^Ignore him...

Anyway, some real advice:
If she's dating someone currently, don't be a dick and go try to date her. She may still have feelings for you and some people may get their hearts broken. If she isn't dating someone currently, then just start hanging out with her? If she seems to like you still romantically then maybe try to ease into a conversation of her sexuality and if she still likes your or not. And if she never really shows those feelings or she says she doesn't want to date you, just still be friends :) Bettter than nothing amiright? You'll find someone eventually. Even if it isn't your ex.

[ClaraWho]

She broke up with you because she doesn't want to be with you.

Her sexuality doesn't matter. She clearly didn't want you as a boyfriend. Move on!

~ Clara

[kittycat72]

She broke up with you because she doesn't want to be with you.

Her sexuality doesn't matter. She clearly didn't want you as a boyfriend. Move on!

~ Clara

She literally told me was that the reason she broke up with me was because she had just realized she liked women :/

And thank you everyone else for helping out and responding! My question now is if there's any way really I could tell specifically if she was looking more so for a relationship rather than friendship? Thanks again!

[ClaraWho]

She literally told me was that the reason she broke up with me was because she had just realized she liked women :/

And thank you everyone else for helping out and responding! My question now is if there's any way really I could tell specifically if she was looking more so for a relationship rather than friendship? Thanks again!

*facepalm* same difference.

She left you for someone else. Doesn't matter if that someone has female or male genitals, they weren't you. And that matters. It wasn't your penis she didn't want to be dating, it was you.

Take the rejection and move on, however tough that is.

~ Clara

[kittycat72]

*facepalm* same difference.

She left you for someone else. Doesn't matter if that someone has female or male genitals, they weren't you. And that matters. It wasn't your penis she didn't want to be dating, it was you.

Take the rejection and move on, however tough that is.

~ Clara

Why are you assuming all of this? She didn't date anyone afterwards.

[ClaraWho]

Why are you assuming all of this? She didn't date anyone afterwards.

'Assuming'.




Why are you asking a question when you only want 1 specific answer?



If you believe so stubbornly that she still likes you, go ahead and ask her. It's the only way to get a definitive answer. Otherwise we are going in circles speculating whilst you cling to the belief she still wants to be with you. Despite having dumped you.

~ Clara