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[xBROC4MPO_]

me and my girlfriend have been dating for 1 month now and I want to grab her butt so I was wondering if you grab your girlfriends butt when you hug

[jamie_n5]

Well if you feel she will like it and you are comfortable with it go for it.

[Just JT]

Depends on what the feel I guess of the hug is. Is it a private, intimate but squeezing kinda hug, or is it a I really like/love you, let's talk tomorrow, in front of her dad kinda hug.

Kinda depends on the circumstances and what's socially acceptable with the people seeing you guys hug

[ska8er]

I think u r moving too fast-I
would not grab her butt-she
might not find it cool but u
know her better-if u have to
ask then u have second thoughts
bout it.

[everlong]

I'm going to agree with just JT. I'd just make sure she's cool with it first.

[NatteDroom03]

Just move your hand(s) sloooooowly down. Then she'll have plenty of time to stop you if she doesn't want to be touched there.

[Leprous]

Am I literally the only one who would rather hug/cuddle all day if I should have a girlfriend instead of having sex? Like, come on! There must be other right? Right???

[Just JT]

Am I literally the only one who would rather hug/cuddle all day if I should have a girlfriend instead of having sex? Like, come on! There must be other right? Right???


No, yiur not the only one. I've spent plenty of time in bed, nude, just cuddling, holding, talking, sleeping, just being private personal time and never have sex.
In some ways it's better than sex, some ways...

[Meron]

Just move your hand(s) sloooooowly down. Then she'll have plenty of time to stop you if she doesn't want to be touched there.

This. Also the time and the place matter as well. If you feel seriously boxed in, ask if she'd mind.

[Leprous]

No, yiur not the only one. I've spent plenty of time in bed, nude, just cuddling, holding, talking, sleeping, just being private personal time and never have sex.
In some ways it's better than sex, some ways...

Well I did mean with clothes. Also I don't even care about sex, I wouldn't give a shit about that.

[Just JT]

Well I did mean with clothes. Also I don't even care about sex, I wouldn't give a shit about that.

Oh, ok, sry, but still, yeah, just physical attention, means a lot, think we agree on that

[zzzzzzzzzz]

me and my girlfriend have been dating for 1 month now and I want to grab her butt so I was wondering if you grab your girlfriends butt when you hug

Just move your hand(s) sloooooowly down. Then she'll have plenty of time to stop you if she doesn't want to be touched there.

Agreed. Take your time. If you're stopped, it will be a gentle stop. If not, fondle softly. A grab will just land you with a slap!

[indoxyl]

Am I literally the only one who would rather hug/cuddle all day if I should have a girlfriend instead of having sex? Like, come on! There must be other right? Right???

yes. you are the only one in all of existance that cares about cuddling their partner. Congratulations. You really are The Special One.

Honestly though, people can care about sex AND having cute cuddle sessions. You need to relax, kid.

[Leprous]

yes. you are the only one in all of existance that cares about cuddling their partner. Congratulations. You really are The Special One.

Honestly though, people can care about sex AND having cute cuddle sessions. You need to relax, kid.

Uhm what. I never said people can't have sex. I just said that I personally don't care about it. I'm actually quite calm, thanks for the concern though.

[Darkslidex7]

You know, 1 month is too early, you should probably wait until y'all get to know each other a little more, I personally don't see why guys like seeing butts, I never really enjoyed it, but just an opinion.
Ok but wait a little longer, until you feel like it's the right time. ;)

[Claire Asteroid]

Just move your hand(s) sloooooowly down. Then she'll have plenty of time to stop you if she doesn't want to be touched there.

When I had a boyfriend he did this, went from just hugging slowly down to gently squeezing my bum. It was really good feeling, and if she doesn't want you to she has time to tell you.

[sara___]

I've been touched while hugging