View Full Version : Do you want Kids?
AlexOnToast
February 17th, 2014, 08:59 PM
Simple enough question...
I would say a definite yes, I fully intend to have at least one kid. Mostly because I want there to be someone shorter than me for once....
Seriously tho
Do you want kids?
How Many?
Gender(s)?
Elysium
February 17th, 2014, 09:01 PM
I do think I'd want a kid when I get older. I have such a natural maternal, protective instinct that sometimes I feel like I don't know how I'd deal without a child to take care of. I don't care much for the gender, but I feel like I'd be better suited to caring for a girl. And I'm not sure how many either, seeing as how I'm an only child... I have no idea what it's like to have siblings. It would depend on my situation, I guess.
Croconaw
February 17th, 2014, 09:05 PM
I don't want any kids.
Obsidian
February 17th, 2014, 09:07 PM
I know that I don't want kids. There's a lot of things I want to do in life that would be a lot harder to do if I had other people to look out for. I want to travel a ton and see the world. And I want to have the freedom to be spontaneous and not have to worry about taking care of my kids. I just wouldn't want the responsibility or to be tied down. My plan for life is to get married and be a social worker and travel a ton and have a husky or a pit bull. But not kids :P
ksdnfkfr
February 17th, 2014, 09:08 PM
Not sure. Don't think its in the cards for me.
conniption
February 17th, 2014, 09:09 PM
Yeah, I guess I want some kids. I don't really care what gender, but the most I'll have is two.
KimuraWannabe116
February 17th, 2014, 09:58 PM
Well, considering what I've planned out my life to be when I'm older, it is unlikely I will have children.
Seemyheart
February 17th, 2014, 10:13 PM
Yeah, I want kids when I'm older...much older of course, since I'm still quite young... I know I want at least one. Gender doesn't matter to me.
Gamma Male
February 17th, 2014, 10:26 PM
I don't think so, way too time consuming. Having a kid would ruin my chances of winning a nobel prize in physics! :p
It's either going to be for proving string theory or cracking cold fusion. I haven't decided yet.... :D
Stryker125
February 17th, 2014, 10:27 PM
probably not. If I had kids, there's a pretty good chance they'd have my face. I wouldn't do that to anyone. I can't wait for all my friends to have kids though, so i can be the best uncle evar :D
DarkHorse4eva
February 17th, 2014, 11:19 PM
Honestly, yes. I want kids someday, and I actually think I want 3. Mostly so I can be a better parent than my parents, they don't deserve to experience what I have
Abyssal Echo
February 17th, 2014, 11:28 PM
Nope I don't want any.
Lune
February 18th, 2014, 04:24 AM
I don't think that I'll have kids.
It's not that I don't like kids (ok, I'm not really in fond of them, but I'm sure I would love mines more than everything), I know that I have a lot of maternal instinct.
It's just that I'm not sure I want to raise a child in this world. There's so much pain, so much injustice, so many things I don't want my kid to live with.
Plus, I've been through some hard times and I don't want anyone to live it, especially not my child. I think I don't love life enough to give birth, it would be very hard for me to ensure that my child love life if I don't at 100%.
Maybe one day I'll be able to risk to have a sad child, who will be hurt, but that clearly not for now.
(I know that the kid could be happy and healthy, but if he's not I would feel really guilty)
Sorry for my english!
ninja789
February 18th, 2014, 04:33 AM
yes
1 girl and twin boys
I would feel bad for the girl though haha
Pulp501
February 18th, 2014, 08:49 AM
I've always wanted 4 kids, 2 boys and 2 girls. I just need to get a girl, then get situated in my career first.
Hollywood
February 18th, 2014, 09:57 AM
Definitely someday, but not anytime soon. I'd like to wait until sometime in my thirties before I start having kids, and I think I'd like to have two or three. Not just one though, being an only child sucks. I'd probably rather have sons, because if I had daughters I would slaughter any guy that looked at them.
Living For Love
February 18th, 2014, 01:03 PM
Hum... nope, not in my plans.
Tarannosaurus
February 18th, 2014, 01:14 PM
No, I'm close to infertile anyway. Unless I do what my mother did and go through 12 years of operations and I have no intention of doing that.
I might be a foster mother for older children, because it's much harder for older kids and teenagers to find foster parents.
Body odah Man
February 18th, 2014, 01:24 PM
I think I want at least one kid, preferably a girl as they're more hygienic and supposed to be sweet.
Emerald Dream
February 18th, 2014, 01:51 PM
I do want children, but not until I am much older. I need to be more mature, responsible, and self-reliant before I can raise anyone.
Daz 2000
February 18th, 2014, 03:41 PM
I can't decide if I want them or not.
deregisterme
February 18th, 2014, 03:51 PM
one day, yes. It would be nice to have a boy and a girl.
Plane And Simple
February 18th, 2014, 03:53 PM
Yes. 2. One girl one boy :)
Remora
February 18th, 2014, 03:54 PM
I would be a terrible parent. Seriously.
But i would love to have two children, a guy and a girl, and raise them... and stuff.
hermanthefish
February 18th, 2014, 04:23 PM
I just finished a show where there were a bunch of small children running around making my life hell. So right now, I kinda hate kids, but I still want to have kids one day. I think two would be good.
Lisa R
February 18th, 2014, 04:41 PM
Yes i do want children at a later time in my life.
I want a boy first born then a girl second so the boy can knock the snot out of the bullies and protect his sister.
PinkFloyd
February 18th, 2014, 05:06 PM
I'm not really sure if I want kids or not. It seems like one of those things that I'll decide as I get older because as of right now, I have no idea. I want to keep my family going and have something that I made and be proud of, but on the other hand, I'd like to have more money. Again, I'm not sure.
Synyster Shadows
February 18th, 2014, 05:26 PM
That's a tough choice because I want to be able to give someone the childhood I never really had but I also don't want to be tied down and want to be able to be spontaneous and intimate with my special someone. I'm not sure
DisneyPrincess27
February 18th, 2014, 05:42 PM
I do want children, preferable after marriage. If i have one that's mine than either 1 or 2 boys. But if i adopt (which i plan on doing) I want 2 boys and 1 girl, all teenagers or preteens.
Cygnus
February 18th, 2014, 05:56 PM
Sure, eventually I could have kids, 2 preferably, I don't care about the genders, they're my kids and I'll care for them despite their gender, as a good father must do.
Etcetera
February 18th, 2014, 06:21 PM
yes but im gonna adopt.
backjruton
February 18th, 2014, 11:21 PM
Not sure. Don't think its in the cards for me.
Here too. It'd be really funny to imagine myself with a kid, I wouldnt be able to cope because I can't stand hearing babies cry or the thought of having to change them and teach them how to walk, talk and use the toilet.
If I had a kid I would have to adopt when they're around 5 or 6 and they know all this stuff already because I would hate to have to teach them things I found extremely disgusting :yawn:
Blood
February 18th, 2014, 11:39 PM
Oh no. Definitely not. I think children are nice, and I know how to completely care for infants and toddlers. But I do not want children because:
1. I don't want to run the risk of ruining my body, when I already have difficulty staying at my preferred weight.
2. I want to have the freedom to travel and do the things I want without having to worry about anyone else except my boyfriend.
Those are the two main reasons. But if by some miracle I do want children later in life, I would most definitely try to adopt a boy.
Fanta_Lover44
February 19th, 2014, 05:58 AM
Yeah I want kids, I want two boys my dad was never ever there for me, he still isn't. So being a good dad to my kids will make up for that. ;)
NeuroTiger
February 19th, 2014, 06:18 AM
Yeah certainly! :D
Karkat
February 20th, 2014, 03:38 AM
Yes, I want kids.
2-5 ideally. Preferably 3/4.
Genders don't matter, though I'd love to have both a boy and a girl if possible.
Caver
February 20th, 2014, 10:21 AM
I want kids, probably have 1 of my own then adopt teenagers internationally unsure how how many or what genders :p
Brown13
February 20th, 2014, 10:30 AM
3
Kayle (girl)
Kyle
Alex
blarg2011
February 20th, 2014, 10:50 AM
yeah.. for sure... two boys maybe... not right now.. bt at age of 25 to 30 maybe... not much older cuz u end up being their grandpa more than their dad hahaha
Nottoocool
February 22nd, 2014, 12:12 AM
I want two sons (benefit of being forced by laws I nature to adopt is that I can choose) in a house just like mine now but a little bigger in a nice neighborhood with a bunch of young couples like me and my future husband and we can all grow old as a neighborhood group like my grandparents did with their friends. Sorry for rambling
Virtual13
February 22nd, 2014, 07:35 AM
Yes i do want children at a later time in my life.
I want a boy first born then a girl second so the boy can knock the snot out of the bullies and protect his sister.
I didn't know there was anyone else out there that wanted the same as me when it came to kids!
John566
February 23rd, 2014, 03:53 AM
Yep, I'd like to have a few in maybe 8 to 10 years.
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