how long does it last for?

[sweet toffee]

How long does first time sex normally last for??

and doesn't the lad have to remove his penis after he has lost the erection?

[Atonement]

As for how long - it depends on the people. Some people can go for a long time and others go for a short time.

[Gumleaf]

this is not really puberty related, however for now at least i will allow it.

girls puberty - general puberty

how long - well it depends on how quick you both reach orgasm i guese.

removing - i would think so, i don't think theres much use having it there if its not erect.

[Aηdy]

It can last any amount of time really, although typically 5-20minutes. And if the guy is wearing a condom (which he should be), he should withdraw before he has lost his erection to ensure that no sperm an leak out of the condom or that the condom doesn't fall off.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Though you CAN try to make the first time last as long as possible, the general assumption for guys is that it will be relatively fast for them at least. All sorts of new feelings and whatnot can just make it too hard for a guy to hold off for longer than a few minutes. Don't think that it will be like that every time though... the first time is just "special" that way.

Of course you can try to make it at least feel longer by doing stuff beforehand... not to get into techniques but just use your imagination lol :yeah: