Have your sexual attitudes changed

[Bull]

Thinking back to when you first joined VT and your sexual feelings then and now, what, if anything has changed? What sexual experiences have you had since then and how has that influenced you thinking? Just curious how time and experience changes our thinking. :what:

Me: no sexual interaction with male friends to now living/sharing a bed with a guy. :yes:

[rioo]

I really don't have anything changed in myself. but I think I'm more accepting people with different sexuality now or simply don't need to labeling them.
And I also read a lot things about safe sex and advice here, that's really helpful.

[jamie_n5]

My sexual experience has remained the same. VT has made me much more aware how my peers are doing sexually and mentally and physically. It has surprised me in some ways all the problems and battles. It has also reassured me that I am a normal teenager.

[Dalcourt]

I haven't changed personally at all. I knew what I wanted at an early age and have always stayed true to that.
VT just made me more aware about other people's struggle with their sexuality and showed me that I have grown up in a real accepting g and open environment.

[The Socialist]

I am more accepting to people with other sexualities as well as learning my own. I also learned to love my body more and my puberty is normal. Since I discovered VT, I had my first sexual experiences with my now ex girlfriend which included seeing and touching her breasts and vagina.

[Canadian Dream]

Yeah basically I feel since I joined VT I'm more sexually mature not only through experimenting with other guys and girls but also from what I've read on these forums. It's quite cool what happens :)

I went from no sexual experience whatsoever to experiencing sex with both genders and having a girlfriend.

[NatteDroom03]

I joined VT about 20 minutes ago. Nothing much have change since then. :P

[Just JT]

I think I've changed a lot. I always knew my sexuality, but I hid it from my dad out of fear of what he's do if he knew as I knew he was so opposed to it. But my friends knew, and accepted me. The feeling of knowing dad wouldn't have is still a deep wound that'll take a long time to heal knowing I wasn't To his standard.

After his death, I had no reason to hide it, so I didn't, and has felt great ever since. I never walked around with waving a gay flag or anything. But when presented with the topic, I havent denied it either, I have no fear of showing who I love in public, appropriately.

As far as how relationships have changed, it's gone from a bad, abusive, unhealthy string of sexual what ever idk what even to call it tbh. To now, I have a solid, positive, quality relationship that's not based all on sex. It's based on love and friendship. Love and trust I thought I'd never be able to hold ever again for anyone. Sam has been There for Me for some of the darkest of times, and shown me that not all love is bad.

VT has had a huge part of this also, it's a process for me, a life process. It's an ever changing thing, new perspectives, opinions, new insight to how things are, how they are done, the whys, and how comes of many different pasts. Good or bad, it's all part of being aware that your past, is you, and a part of your future, and we should embrace it, regardless of how good or bad it is.

Yeah, kinda deep huh? It's what I've learned here.

[Cadanance00]

I joined VT about 20 minutes ago. Nothing much have change since then. :P

Well, umm, I hope not.:)

[NatteDroom03]

Well, umm, I hope not.:)

It would be strange otherwise. ;)

[pjones]

joined at 13, and thought i was straight and maybe a little curious. grew up with a group of friends that had no body issues, we'd take baths or showers together starting as little kids until our teens. seeing and being with boys nude was pretty natural.

I was always able to talk to my dad about anything, and thankfully not being afraid to let him see me nude became a series of doctor visits and treatments for what turned out to be a hormone imbalance i have that wouldn't have happened if he hadn't seen how i was physically maturing.

VT allowed me understand my inner feelings towards other boys, especially my best friend. i know now that those early attractions and sexual responses were more than just going through puberty and that i prefer my own gender sexually, though i'm still physically attracted to girls.

after my dad finding me and mt best friend in a compromising situation, not anal, he calmly explained what we need to think about if we were going to have any type of sexual relationship. that kind of opened the door to let my parents know of my preference, which was accepted with love and understanding.

reading posts in so many forums about others life experiences really helped when telling my family, and made me realize that you can have a natural life regardless of your sexual orientation, and i hope it will continue to help others as it did for me.

[ThomasD]

I let u know in a few years!