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EthanC15
July 25th, 2016, 12:55 PM
My boyfriend has had me in a chastity device for the better half of a year is this something you would be okay with?
I feel comfortable with it but still wanted to get another view on this so that if I'm not seeing something someone else would.

kissban
July 25th, 2016, 02:02 PM
why?

ska8er
July 25th, 2016, 02:09 PM
Are "You" Ok with it? If u continue to let
him confine u then your telling him that
he can control u which is unfair and in a
way abuse. No I would "NOT" be Ok with
it. Id find another B/F.

Brightwolf
July 25th, 2016, 02:22 PM
What above said ^^^

PlasmaHam
July 25th, 2016, 02:39 PM
I don't know your situation, but if he is making you do something, or wear something, you don't want to do, I would seriously reconsider having him as a boyfriend.

zzzzzzzzzz
July 25th, 2016, 02:49 PM
What? Are those things still allowed? I'd tell him where to go!

Sports Boy
July 25th, 2016, 02:49 PM
I guess some people have those kinds of relationships where there is a dominant and a submissive, and the submissive does as he's told by the dominant. But I'm not sure how old you are, or he is, but I bet you're probably too young for a chastity device. I mean this is a teen forum. If this was between two consenting adults, it would be nobody's business. But I don't think you're an adult. So, get out of the chastity device before he starts demanding more stuff.

Living For Love
July 25th, 2016, 03:19 PM
Puberty For Boys :arrow2: Relationships and Dating

everlong
July 25th, 2016, 04:17 PM
It's down to what you're okay with. If you're uncomfortable with it, or don't like it for any reason, then no, it's not okay.

Falcons_11
July 25th, 2016, 04:30 PM
No. I wouldn't.

I thought these kinds of devices when out with the rack and iron maiden!

EthanC15
July 25th, 2016, 06:03 PM
Are "You" Ok with it? If u continue to let
him confine u then your telling him that
he can control u which is unfair and in a
way abuse. No I would "NOT" be Ok with
it. Id find another B/F.check edit

I guess some people have those kinds of relationships where there is a dominant and a submissive, and the submissive does as he's told by the dominant. But I'm not sure how old you are, or he is, but I bet you're probably too young for a chastity device. I mean this is a teen forum. If this was between two consenting adults, it would be nobody's business. But I don't think you're an adult. So, get out of the chastity device before he starts demanding more stuff. That is how our relationship seems to be going and I don't mind I quite like it but I wanted to get another opinion

Posts merged. Please use the "multi quote" button next time. ~City Kid

Sports Boy
July 25th, 2016, 06:08 PM
That is how our relationship seems to be going and I don't mind I quite like it but I wanted to get another opinion

How old are you guys?

ska8er
July 25th, 2016, 07:47 PM
check edit

Huh? :what:

jamie_n5
July 25th, 2016, 08:28 PM
Well I can't believe what I read. Man there is no way on earth I would put up with anyone putting me in a chastity device. That is abuse as far as I am concerned. A relationship should be built on honesty and trust. If your boyfriend doesn't trust you I would be looking for a new boyfriend.

pconnor2001
July 25th, 2016, 09:01 PM
Hard to beleive that these things are out there. in 2016?

Leprous
July 25th, 2016, 09:48 PM
This is wrong on so many levels.

EthanC15
July 25th, 2016, 11:07 PM
How old are you guys?
I tried to respond to your pm but it says I need 100 posts :/

Dalcourt
July 25th, 2016, 11:18 PM
If you are both comfortable with it and this is how you want your relationship to be then I'd say to each his own.
It wouldn't be my thing as I feel these kinds of relationships are more for adults than younger people...but yea.

jamie_n5
July 25th, 2016, 11:57 PM
Hi as I said before a relationship needs to be based on love, trust and communication. There should be no need for chastity devices. If that is what you want then I hope things work out. For me I would tell him where to go with his chastity device.

eagle18
July 26th, 2016, 10:48 AM
I could see that as fun for once and a while while being together, but wearing all the time, no i wouldnt do that.

City Kid
July 26th, 2016, 03:01 PM
I just had to google "chastity device" to find out what it was. Now I wish I hadn't done that. I thought the middle ages were over! It just seems really fucked up to me.
But it's your life and your relationship, so I guess if you're happy with it...

Uniquemind
July 26th, 2016, 09:08 PM
I just had to google "chastity device" to find out what it was. Now I wish I hadn't done that. I thought the middle ages were over! It just seems really fucked up to me.
But it's your life and your relationship, so I guess if you're happy with it...

I've since been very resigned to the world being a very strange place. This is one of those things where I don't understand it, but if it isn't hurting anybody I leave it alone.

However to answer the OP, I would not have one of these devices or ask a partner to use one within any relationship I am ever in.

The only appeal I can see is in theory, regarding the ebb and flow, of power, within a relationship, and how that dynamic plays out but it's still not something I'd be a proponent of.

Typhlosion
July 27th, 2016, 03:02 AM
What in the flying fuck.

More interestingly, OP, can you giv us your opinion?

ska8er
July 27th, 2016, 01:49 PM
I have nothing more to say..
~

Quick edit : I just googled what this device actually is and I was like WTF? Does this dumb fuck know You have mouth ? Like.. Dunno.. You may not fuck with this equipped on You but still can give a man blowjob which is * my opinion * even worst.. You will kiss him with this mouth eventually :D
~

If anyone is Ok with something like this-ur B/F is using
u and if u don't c anything wrong with it then u r blind
to the fact-how about u tell him that if he makes u wear
one then he should wear one also-he is not limiting himself
to pleasure. :no::yuck: