How can I take fear and shyness away?

[Lukas1999]

I have a new question about a girl that likes me. I already have posted a thread with a question that was related to her. You can find it here:

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=2029140

I have asked her for a meeting a week ago. I have told her that we are writing for a very long time and that we could meet us. We have holidays so we have the time for it too. I asked her for meeting next week.

She said that she has no time because she has visitors this week.

Slowly, I no longer believe in her. Everytime I asked her for a meeting she said that she has no time.

I think that she is very shy about a meeting. You have to know that I am her first "friend" she can imagine a relationship with. She must be very afraid about a meeting. We texted last friday.

What can I do to take her the shyness away?

[DoodleSnap]

The best foundation for a good relationship of any sort is good communication and honesty. My advice is that you should talk to her about it, and try to get her to feel comfortable talking.

Good luck.

[Lukas1999]

On Friday last week I was very angry about her so I deleted her number, but I still follow her on Instagram or other social media networks.

Should I wait with texting? She could text me first if she wants something.

[jamie_n5]

Well are you sure she is really who she says she is? She may be someone playing with you with no intention of ever meeting. If you think she is true and is just shy or very busy then keep talking and trying to get her out of her shell and meet with you. Good Luck.