Gay or bi?

[Garibay]

Well, I do not know.
I would like to have sex with boys, and girls, but I would like to have a boyfriend.
At now I have a girlfriend but I have been sending nudes to other boys.
But I like a lot my girlfriend, so?
Am I gay?

[pconnor2001]

You may want to be careful sending out nude pictures.

[Just JT]

^^. I agree, plus, there is only one person who can ever tell you your own sexuality. And that person has already posted in this thread.

[NZPerson]

Im pretty sure you know yourself.

[Jay21]

Does it really matter giving yourself a label? Do what you want to do and be who you want to be. It doesn't matter if you are gay or straight or bi, anybody who is worth their salt will still think nothing less of you. So if you want to date boys, then go ahead, or if you want to date girls, then thats fine too. Do what makes you happy :)

[Dalcourt]

Sending nudes to others never sounds like a good idea and it's only you how knows what you want.

[Corvonius]

Well, I do not know.
I would like to have sex with boys, and girls, but I would like to have a boyfriend.
At now I have a girlfriend but I have been sending nudes to other boys.
But I like a lot my girlfriend, so?
Am I gay?

Seriously, don't send out nudes. Your body is for you and who you are with. I don't know if i'm gay or bi either. I emotionally like both genders, but only sexually like other guys. It kind of sounds like we are in similar situations. Feel free to send me a message if you want to talk about it, i think it could be helpful for both of us.:)

[Corvonius]

Also, Jay21 is right. do what makes you happy, and do what makes you feel good about yourself. If you dont like who you are, you can change. If you do like you are, good for you!

[pjones]

Please, as the others said, don't send nudes. way too dangerous. you probably just need some time to figure out your sexuality.

[Falcons_11]

Please, as the others said, don't send nudes. way too dangerous. you probably just need some time to figure out your sexuality.

I agree with the others who advise never send out nudes. This could get you in serious trouble if their parents or others see those nudes. It's not cool, dude!

[Bull]

IMO it would be wrong to have a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time. That would mean you are cheating on them both. Also, as others have said, knock off the sending nude photos. That is dangerous, those photos could end up all over the internet. You never know.

[Canadian Dream]

As many others have said it's a bad idea to send nudes at all. From what you've said you might be bisexual since you seem to like both sexes but you're the only one who can determine that for sure.

[Flapjack]

Dude sending nudes is not cool when you have a gf. Don't send nudes at all would be my advice but please don't break that girls heart.

[Zachary G]

Only you know the genuine answer to this question and I think you already know what the answer is, you just want someone else to say it for you. Just be who you are and dont worry about labels. Love who you want to love and never mind everything else.

[Just JT]

On sending the nude pics of yourself, it might also be illegal where you live, depending on age and the laws. It could be considered diseminating child pornography.

[Harrier]

I agree with others that you probably know deep down inside what you are. Did you mean to write that you do want a boyfriend or did you mean to write that you wouldn't 9bc some guys would be ok with doing sexual things with other guys but not date or kiss other guys). About nudes, do what you want but know the laws and don't send to strangers or people how will share them ... and not cool to do it while dating somebody imo.

[jamie_n5]

Sounds like you are Bi confused to me.