WhoWhatWhen
July 14th, 2016, 10:21 PM
Is it normal to miss my father who never took the time to try to see me?
Him and my mother divorced when I was little. He was emotionally abusive to her, but never really abusive towards me. I do have a few good memories with him of course. During the divorce he never showed to court so my mom was granted full custody. I never saw him since. He died a few years back and very recently I have noticed myself thinking about him and how much I miss him and how I wish he would've been in my life (if he cleaned up his act). I know this is a normal thing to miss family, but how do I stop missing him? Why am I missing him? I thought I was done with all these emotions towards him...:(
Him and my mother divorced when I was little. He was emotionally abusive to her, but never really abusive towards me. I do have a few good memories with him of course. During the divorce he never showed to court so my mom was granted full custody. I never saw him since. He died a few years back and very recently I have noticed myself thinking about him and how much I miss him and how I wish he would've been in my life (if he cleaned up his act). I know this is a normal thing to miss family, but how do I stop missing him? Why am I missing him? I thought I was done with all these emotions towards him...:(